New Dating site. Balck Hat or White Hat SEO?

Looking for some expert advice

Recently purchased a dating site from DatingFactorydotcom. Just starting to do some SEO. this is my first time working on a dating site and i am looking for some help as in what SEO tactics i should use. Black hat or white hat?

Maybe someone who has worked on a previous dating site could give me some advice
the site is very new but has members from a database provided from datingfactory, the niche is for young singles looking to hook up. I know the competition is huge which is why i am asking for help
any feedback would be great, negative or positive

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Thanks

well first if you are choosing between blackhat and whitehat then you must be a newbie at SEO, and seeing that you are a newbie I suggest you start manually and learn techniques. then look at the top 10 results in your niche and look how they are doing seo. copy what they are doing but slowly as your site (which is new) could get penalized for building links to fast.

but first just read up on SEO here

ehrazz said:

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That's a pretty interesting TLD for the adult niche

Hello, I well sagest You start the work PPC work in google, yahoo. I have all ready starting work in this type and i am very happy.....

For adult niches there will be other PPC networks , which will provide far cheaper traffic than Adwords & MSN . Google those networks, you will be in huge profits from it. I actually could not remember the names of them. Good luck

I highly favor using White Hat SEO. =)