Need life advise

just my two cents OP... learn to be yourself... ask yourself what makes you happy and go make a living for it... dont push yourself too much and worry that you have a limited time... there are many advises here on your thread that is correct... its up for you to decide but dont rush... just because your fellow is doing good in his life doesnt mean that you are a failure... everybody has our own timeline... so just dont rush things...
 
I guess you're right. Its just a shitty feeling if you don't have a clue what to do in your life, while my friends are getting their degree in a few month....
Thanks guys!

Don't go to school for the sake of getting a degree. Do something that interests you. If its school then fine but it doesn't sound like it. Following your passion is more important and will result on more sucess. If you have a passing for marketing then pursue it.

Nothing wrong with living at home until 26, I did. It gave me time to figure life out. Most people straight out of high school have no clue what they want to do.
 
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You have the mindset of an employee, and you should probably think about changing that. Papers mean nothing, unless you want to be a slave of some corporation for lifetime...

I am also from Europe, and I can honestly tell you that from ten richest people I know in person, only two have a degree from University.
And from five most happy people I've ever met in my life (speaking about inner satisfaction and happiness in everyday life, not being happy one day when you get a hot chick, or buy a new car), not a single one has a degree... ;)

So, do what you want, but don't think that a degree will bring you riches and/or happiness. You will remember my words in few years time.

I know what you mean, but it always depends on the country. In europe I have to say i think its complete bullshit. Ofcourse the most important thing is the "paper" you have in the end. But you DO learn alot about the topic. If you're not some genius you can't now these things and probably won't understand them. And most people who do not have a degree fail. People who get wealthy without a degree are very lucky or very smart. Or both.
 
As someone starting from scratch in my 30s my advice do what you enjoy. Don't get a degree just for the sake of it only do it if you want to. I wish I could have spent my 20s still at my mum's would have given me better options now I'm older but better late than never.Always have a plan B to fall back on just in case it doesn't work out.
 
money
& eating well getting skinny
eggs help, may eat like 8 eg whites & yokes & will get skinny & beautiful ez with a ok haircut & tan
& earning $$$$$, job first if needed & net marketing should always be a hobby til earning steady & saved lots. :)
 
I know exactly what are you feeling right now. Here's my advise: continue with the classes and manage your time to balance IM with Uni classes. and since it's not an Engineering school / Medical school I'm quite sure it's not that hard. most guys in business/economics school just prepare some stuff before the exams and they pass pretty easily.

I know personally some guys who are doing masters in Engineering and doing IM at the same time! I'm not saying this is a right thing to do. It depends on the person itself but I'm saying it's pretty doable.

And here's my technical advise: Try to learn something just like FB ads.. and within few months try to land your first client in Germany. Trust me, in European countries you can find A LOT of clients and they pay so fine.
 
Bad spelling indicates lack of attention to detail. Also describing failing a class, and probably two more, as if that were an event like a traffic accident, indicates an inability to see consequences to your actions, or the lack thereof. Example "I failed a class because I didn't study." says one thing, and "I failed a class, and probably two more." says something else. In the first example, assumption of responsibility is immediate, and in the second, the willingness to take responsibility is denied. These are character defects, IMO.

"I didn't meet the deadline.", leaving the reason why out. "I didn't come into work yesterday.", etc... There's no point in doing a full linguistic autopsy. The problem was displayed in the first few sentences. As far as "But English is my 2nd language", I counter with 1) Using a browser without a spell-checker in a foreign language says something about character, and attention to detail, and 2) it also says what other people think of you isn't important. People think that other people that make spelling errors are sloppy, and don't care about what other people think about them (like Employers, and Customers), and don't think maintaining high professional standards are important.

IMO, the problem goes to the core of your identity, and you aren't going to solve that problem by asking a question on an internet marketing forum.

To anyone that might disagree; would you hire this person after reading the 1st paragraph of the OP? Would you want this person as your employee, and representing your company? If you were a co-worker, and this person got a promotion and became your Supervisor, would you respect them?
 
I think it would be best to play with what most resources you have right now, if you could live with your parents it would be nice as you could create a solid foundation moving forward. Perhaps you could conceptualize or develop an app, map a business or an online business, procure resources, plan your execution. All of that takes time and that being said you would need to have some solid wall to lean on in case and a roof above your head. Living with your parents can help you out on that!
 
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