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Seagate44

Seagate44

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Hey guys,
So I been like that for a while; I always wanted to grow online business and I made it, I'm living fully from online. I have everything in order.

But...
Ive been down for years. Other than going to gym/hook up with friends, I stay home - unmotivated, rotting myself in house. Recently I started even sufferig from anxiety. I haven't feel stress my whole life!

Guys, I desperately need help. Maybe someone was in similar position that I am now?

What to do? Where to go?

I need something to do outside my house that is ENGAGING & SATISFYING.

You know, just engaging stuff to do. We humans need to do the WORK. Something that will get myself productive, with fun people....I couldn't find it!

I used to go for some part time job but it all has been total BS. Not nice ppl/atmosphere, or just dumb job like warehousing etc.

I know I prolly sound like a pu**y asking for advice of this kind right here, but well that's how desperate I am.

Anyone please?
 
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Hey, I would advise you to think of a hobby you would like. Maybe cars? You could then go to car meet ups and so on.
 
stoat said:
Volunteer
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I hear that all the time. I mean I might do that but I prefer to work/do something not neccesarily to gain profit bo to DO THINGS. I can't imagine voluntering other than doing x like hanging out with alone people for 2 hours/day.

I need some engaging stuff to have the time fly, feel productive af and don't feel like I waste my life.

Of course volunteer is still on the table.
 
Yeah thats what we say is like a lower anderanaline level. Your life seems to be taste less. Try to get a partner may be to get some rush into you. Or may its time to start a new venture like a risky one with higher stakes. Good cinema also helps in this.
 
prey24 said:
Yeah thats what we say is like a lower anderanaline level. Your life seems to be taste less. Try to get a partner may be to get some rush into you. Or may its time to start a new venture like a risky one with higher stakes. Good cinema also helps in this.
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I have a partner, a home, a car yo I have everything in order. Lol.

I just need to feel PRODUCTIVE with people and outside home.

Its ridiculous to post such questions on forums tho smh.
 
Seagate44 said:
I have a partner, a home, a car yo I have everything in order. Lol.

I just need to feel PRODUCTIVE with people and outside home.

Its ridiculous to post such questions on forums tho smh.
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Ohk it will sound stupid but you need spiritual assistance. Here comes the roasting for me lol
 
When working online, it can be tough as most of our time is spent in front of a screen for the most part or (mine as well). Someone mentioned volunteering as it really does make you feel good, giving back to others. Also, finding people that you can have meaningful friendships with is something I am working on now, and I think you can do it as well. I know with Covid, it's a bit difficult, but the more I get out, the less anxious I feel. Again, it would help if you broke up your routine as your body tells you something is wrong. I would also advise seeing a counselor as it does help to let out all your feelings once a week or whatever would suit you. Wishing nothing but the best and if you need anything just pm me anytime. GB
 
The first step is identifying you have a problem, and the 99 other steps are doing something about it.

Volunteer, start a business.

Send an email to everyone you respect and care about saying that you're going to start a business by X date & if you don't, you'll give them $50 each.

That makes you accountable and if the embarrassment doesn't make you act, then the people asking for $50 certainly will - one way or another you're paying in time or money.
 
I think you are missing some adrenaline. Have you tried extreme sports?
 
maybe you need to do 10 X business acceleration with Grand Cardone ? LOL
 
You need a hobby with people.

You said you go to the gym, do you know people there or do you go alone?

If you know people there, maybe talk to them, see what hobbies they are into, see if you can tag along. Maybe even book a holiday with your family or friends so that you have something to plan for. Admittedly, you will have to book it for 2022, but still, it gives you something to look forward to.
 
Seagate44 said:
Hey guys,
So I been like that for a while; I always wanted to grow online business and I made it, I'm living fully from online. I have everything in order.

But...
Ive been down for years. Other than going to gym/hook up with friends, I stay home - unmotivated, rotting myself in house. Recently I started even sufferig from anxiety. I haven't feel stress my whole life!

Guys, I desperately need help. Maybe someone was in similar position that I am now?

What to do? Where to go?

I need something to do outside my house that is ENGAGING & SATISFYING.

You know, just engaging stuff to do. We humans need to do the WORK. Something that will get myself productive, with fun people....I couldn't find it!

I used to go for some part time job but it all has been total BS. Not nice ppl/atmosphere, or just dumb job like warehousing etc.

I know I prolly sound like a pu**y asking for advice of this kind right here, but well that's how desperate I am.

Anyone please?
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Felt like that sometimes in the past, stay strong bro <3

- Travel is definitely a great cure but kinda hard right now
- Many ideas here are great, volunteering a good one because its rewarding in several ways and socialization is easier with people
- Do you have a significant other, are you looking for one or are you too down to ?
- Do you do drugs ? (cannabis personally put me in a similar situation for a few years)
- Maybe try to identify the little things that makes you excited throughout the day and think of a way to spend more time revolving around this (not sure it can apply to your situation)

Keep it up, you're gonna find a solution out of this cause you have to
 
Stuffedegg said:
You need a hobby with people.

You said you go to the gym, do you know people there or do you go alone?

If you know people there, maybe talk to them, see what hobbies they are into, see if you can tag along. Maybe even book a holiday with your family or friends so that you have something to plan for. Admittedly, you will have to book it for 2022, but still, it gives you something to look forward to.
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Yes bro I mean I don't suffer from lack of company. I have people to hang out with. And you're right with traveling, I just came back from a small trip and it was awesome.

This is about the time from 9-5 when everybody is at work and I stay home slacking, procrastinating and wasting my time. I'd rather spend some time with other people, enjoying some fine work. But jobs available are shi**y, plus mostly full time which I don't have time for. Need to save energy and time for my relationship, business & just regular stuff.

Chaffrey said:
Felt like that sometimes in the past, stay strong bro <3

- Travel is definitely a great cure but kinda hard right now
- Many ideas here are great, volunteering a good one because its rewarding in several ways and socialization is easier with people
- Do you have a significant other, are you looking for one or are you too down to ?
- Do you do drugs ? (cannabis personally put me in a similar situation for a few years)
- Maybe try to identify the little things that makes you excited throughout the day and think of a way to spend more time revolving around this (not sure it can apply to your situation)

Keep it up, you're gonna find a solution out of this cause you have to
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Yes bro I used to smoke pot and that was also my thought that it was worsening the thing, so I stopped. Not smokig for a while now and I feel good. I mean I know I would feel way worse if I smoked, I'm still not too happy though.
Like I said - some fine, simple labor with nice people would do. Let's say 4-6 hours in the morning.

What was your story though? I would love to hear it!
 
Seagate44 said:
Yes bro I used to smoke pot and that was also my thought that it was worsening the thing, so I stopped. Not smokig for a while now and I feel good. I mean I know I would feel way worse if I smoked, I'm still not too happy though.
Like I said - some fine, simple labor with nice people would do. Let's say 4-6 hours in the morning.

What was your story though? I would love to hear it!
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It's a great thing that you had the will to stop !
I went through the same thing, I would stop smoking and feel xay better and motivated for a few weeks-months
But I hadn't enough willpower and often couldn't say no when friends were smoking

It was either smoke and have a diminished social life an no ambition/motivation or stop smoking, hitting the gym but realizing I was'nt happy and reconsider smoking

A shitty vicious circle I held for years

....And still hold...

I managed to find a way to go through smoking periods of time by having a business and defining a "vision" and a path to follow
My brain's basically tricked into pursuing this goal of filthy wealth and even if it isn't healthy at all, it gets me going

I got fewer friends but I find them so much more interesting and I look up to them
It's a great feeling to be surrounded by people who you admire for such or such thing
These people are biz partners as well and it's a pleasure
 
Chaffrey said:
It's a great thing that you had the will to stop !
I went through the same thing, I would stop smoking and feel xay better and motivated for a few weeks-months
But I hadn't enough willpower and often couldn't say no when friends were smoking

It was either smoke and have a diminished social life an no ambition/motivation or stop smoking, hitting the gym but realizing I was'nt happy and reconsider smoking

A shitty vicious circle I held for years

....And still hold...

I managed to find a way to go through smoking periods of time by having a business and defining a "vision" and a path to follow
My brain's basically tricked into pursuing this goal of filthy wealth and even if it isn't healthy at all, it gets me going

I got fewer friends but I find them so much more interesting and I look up to them
It's a great feeling to be surrounded by people who you admire for such or such thing
These people are biz partners as well and it's a pleasure
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Word so what are you doing now?
And it's not that had a "will to stop", even though I smoked regurarly for years, I stopped overnight and never had any issues at all. Stuff never got me addicted. Which is kinda interesting when I think about it now.
 
Seagate44 said:
And it's not that had a "will to stop", even though I smoked regurarly for years, I stopped overnight and never had any issues at all. Stuff never got me addicted. Which is kinda interesting when I think about it now.
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Yep, thats interesting indeed
It seems like there is different types of profiles when it comes to addiction
I think I'm easily addicted to stuff, thats why I won't ever try anything else than pot
I am addicted to pot but managed to temper this
It still is an issue butnowhere as it used to be

Seagate44 said:
Word so what are you doing now?
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I got a step in biz dev with a export business of Easybreath masks
Then jumped to IG marketing & Growth hacking
We manage our client's ig accounts and do every type of ig-related business
Disclaimer : I won't engage into any kind of commercial relation in bhw or with people form bhw

Now I work with a dev team and stand on the more commercial side of the force
As I said I admire these people and although already having a good general understanding of internet stuff and dev culture before meeting them,
to their contact I learn a lot and it broadens possibilities



Thats what I do
 
Chaffrey said:
Yep, thats interesting indeed
It seems like there is different types of profiles when it comes to addiction
I think I'm easily addicted to stuff, thats why I won't ever try anything else than pot
I am addicted to pot but managed to temper this
It still is an issue butnowhere as it used to be


I got a step in biz dev with a export business of Easybreath masks
Then jumped to IG marketing & Growth hacking
We manage our client's ig accounts and do every type of ig-related business
Disclaimer : I won't engage into any kind of commercial relation in bhw or with people form bhw

Now I work with a dev team and stand on the more commercial side of the force
As I said I admire these people and although already having a good general understanding of internet stuff and dev culture before meeting them,
to their contact I learn a lot and it broadens possibilities



Thats what I do
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Actually it got me thinkig and I think I'm easily addicted to scrolling&wasting time on social media/reddit/internet in general

It might be kind of disfunction when you think about it.
 
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