To all you wrote, especially this part:
You're approaching this the wrong way man.
1. Women want sex just like men want sex
2. Women want a man to fuck them and make them feel amazing. Give them a great experience. Just like you do. If you had to choose between a sensual, feminine woman who wants to fuck you or a "meh" woman which would you go for?
3. If you like her and you want to fuck her, then assume it. Be a man and don't give excuses about it not even to yourself. You like her, you want to fuck her. What's so wrong or unnatural with it. If you go like "i just wanna stare into ur green eyes" she's going to be like "omfg get me out of here this guy is creepy/needy/wimp/kid-like".
4. That being said, being a man and wanting sex is not equivalent to being an insensitive asshole who is into it just to score another name in his "women i banged" notebook.
You can respect a woman, be romantic or whatever and still be manly and attractive. Don't go wierdo proposing sex or whatever to her. Just take her and go have fun with her. Don't take her out to impress her or give her something. Go out primarily for you, for your fun and just make her part of your experience and enjoy it togheter. And just have fun. Don't think about sex, don't think about scoring, don't think about anything. Just have fun. That's it. Have fun. Oh, and do pay attention to her and her signals and all. There are 3 signals a woman gives:
1. Indifference - she looks at other people, is interested in something else. Not passive to you but interested in something/somebody else.
2. "Get me out of here"/unconfortable look - she's unconfortable with you, you're wierding her out.
3. Anything else, including slight perceived pasivity translates in "we're in the game, take me into your world and make me live something that i will remember for the rest of my life". And this is where dudes screw it. They either don't assume it, they think they have to overcompensate or do some kind of superman-like stunt and make it all wierd or just dont pay attention and engage in a communication but instead stay in their own head. That's why you want to have fun. That way ur not staying in your head.
Forget about being nice or a good friend. If you like her, have fun with her - flirt, play, enjoy her, touch her (as in soft taps and "accidental" body rubbing) etc. Don't make it too accidental but don't make it look like "i'm scared to touch you" or "oh look i can rub your skin off or be creepy".
PS: Stop fucking worshiping her or seeing her as some kind of magical fairy or your never going to fuck her that way, most likely not even enjoy her green eyes in a bi-directional way that's not super creepy for her.
