Losing a girlfriend so fast , messaging stupid shit .....

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It is like this,
I meet a girl many years ago we become really good friends, she got her home I got my home, she my age and good looking and all that shit everything we said fell in place Because we knew each over.

We were chatting to one another in the same room ended up with wild sex for 4 days.

but she keeps telling me it is not about the sex.

I started to question her deep shit over the 4 days, don't know why but I become like an investigator and she got pissed off and eventually chuck me home.

Ever since going home I have been leaving messenger messages and know and then get the odd return good message but all about her, any question not answer at about us.

While we were together she said my house needed things to bring it back to life, so I did that but without her help.

Anyway, she messages me hurt her arm boiling a kettle, so I ask her to come my house and ill look afther her, some as a fall go and makes sure I got a fresh bed and fresh sheets and make a bed in the front room to hopefully look afther her when she arrived.

She never arrived then I started texting mad shit like stupid questions, there read but not answer.

I think I fucked this all up and I do care and really like this woman.

What I have done is delete my messenger and deleted my contact with her so I don't keep messaging like a child.

I really find emotional shit hard to handle don't know why all over good 4-day sex and kissing and cuddling.

I don't know what to do, before all my messaging was going to come my home help me but that seems fucked lol.

Just maybe if I stay away let her breathe we be ok or she be back..

I just knew in my heart getting involved with a person that I knew it was bad news because friendship always gets crushed.

Stomped what to do being honest.

What your opinion and outcome with my bf and gf life......((what would you do))

I did buy x2 psychological books on relationships, my ways are terrible need sorting .
 
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Sorry Its very complicated
What that shit mean I ant got that said yet but me early days might off , we are all over 40 lol

hahaha, some do, but the last one became my wife :D
No gold digging she got her own cash this ant about money at all.

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Support an old man lol

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Please english it a english forum please trans late .

I fucked this one up I am sure, not funny.

I was enjoying my self to much my fucking mouth.
 
it seems both of you are already mature, I think with a little bit of attention (physical presence) at the very least would solve the confusion :)
Thank you understandable just got scared now lol.
But thank you .

If you care and message too much you will end up powerless in the relationship going forward.
I understand that a bit, can you explain more please
 
spam her till it works
 
I still need to grow up the emotional side that was so dumb
 
I'm so sorry for the previous post
You need to find another person that matches your personality and interests rather than forcing others to do something. If you can have sex with the other girl but the other girl is not happy, then your friendship It won't be long. So it's best to choose someone who has the same interests as you.
 
I will keep this updated on what does happen.

If I get any calls or anything develops and she does visit and help me, afther giving her rest from my gob.

Thanks to everyone that responded properly.

I'm so sorry for the previous post
You need to find another person that matches your personality and interests rather than forcing others to do something. If you can have sex with the other girl but the other girl is not happy, then your friendship It won't belong. So it's best to choose someone who has the same interests as you.
What we been friends over 25 years we got hundreds of interests with each over.

We match because we always around now and then together.

But you might be right maybe move on...

But firstly I will see what happens.

I no about don't keep all methods in one basket.

Thank you for your opinion

"""Explain the forcing others to do something please as that not me."""
Very offensive
 
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