The Scarlet Pimp
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ha! you just described "false friends", not "true friends".
true friends are there for you, false friends aren't.
Lonely/Depressed from IM
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ha! you just described "false friends", not "true friends".
true friends are there for you, false friends aren't.
SMMCity
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Either way, that's not the point I was making. The point was, it doesn't matter, you don't need friends.
Some people however do need friends, some don't. I personally don't, being alone allows you to think clearly.
My advice to OP is to try and realize that being lonely isn't a bad thing.
swagguru
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Come on Bro! The kids in today's generation, I tell Ya!... You have the world at your fingertips with all this technology. Turn it into something positive and successful. Don't become one of these entitled kids of today. Put all that Sh*t aside you are talking about and this is what I want you to do. Make a huge effort to think positively every day, push away all the negatives, get good grades in school, put 100% into everything you do including school, its for your own good and future. You workout so it sounds like you can have a good mind set. Trust me you will come out on top! Where's your parents? We are all here for you man don't ever feel alone buddy. This what I want you to do every day: (Turn off your computer/smartphone, tv, video games, layoff the booze/weed, stay away from girls for now.) Also, go get some fresh air-outside and talk with your close buddies/friends face to face on a daily basis "not texting." Check out matchups online you can meet up with real people wherever you live who share the same interest you have and meet some real new friends.
jakesnke
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Hey man I would recommend a few things...
1. Excercise more. Boosts your self confidence, and is a natural anti-depressant.
2. Join clubs at your school, or take up a hobby (join a badmitton club / mma / bowling ) more importantly ask an aquantance from one of your classes to join with you, so you dont feel like you are starting from the bottom.
1. Excercise more. Boosts your self confidence, and is a natural anti-depressant.
2. Join clubs at your school, or take up a hobby (join a badmitton club / mma / bowling ) more importantly ask an aquantance from one of your classes to join with you, so you dont feel like you are starting from the bottom.
thejake
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The best cure for depression is bhw's official chat, located at https://kiwiirc.com/client/irc.blackhatworld.com/blackhatworld
hacko
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Honestly dude, fuck what everyone thinks. Since you seem smart and you said you like working out, too, I recommend that you check out Elliott Hulse on YouTube - dude's got some good advice. Also, what type of school are you in? If it's high school - fuck that. It won't even matter in like a year. If it's college, just try to meet some chicks and you're good to go. Friendships are overrated, friends come and go and their really is no point in stressing out about it.
Also, you said that workout-drink-meditate is a part of your routine... Doesn't really seem like a good combo lol, try downing the drinking part and perhaps only drink during the weekends or something, it might be the reason why you feel depressed. And yeah, money always seem to make me happy, so why not spend more time trying to scale up your earnings and not focus on the bad things. Just play some sick music and work your butt off.
Also, you said that workout-drink-meditate is a part of your routine... Doesn't really seem like a good combo lol, try downing the drinking part and perhaps only drink during the weekends or something, it might be the reason why you feel depressed. And yeah, money always seem to make me happy, so why not spend more time trying to scale up your earnings and not focus on the bad things. Just play some sick music and work your butt off.
Madruga
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Pack your stuff, go to Thailand. Stay there and work 2 months, fly straight to Ibiza, Spain. After that, go to Amsterdam and after that go to Brazil, Rio. Work and travel. New cultures, new people.. it's a life journey that few can even dream, go for it!
set work times for self and set other times to step out into the world.. get the fresh air that you deserve. Socialize with a few people and keep a few contacts but dont get too intertwined with them.. Let them come to you.. They'll love your ambition to work hard on your projects and will be drawn to you. Same with chicks.. don't sweat them.. The world is yours
moose942
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Where do you live? That plays a huge part in this. If you live in NYC making friends / networking is easy and you'll always have something to do and friends to hang out / party with. Go to the park, clubs, anywhere with a lot of people. Once you get in the habit of being friendly with people, approaching girls, etc it comes very easy.
sevenjah
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You know what, You're missing something. What about a family bonding once a week? What about teaching your old/close friend what you're doing? I assume you have at least one 
If you are depressed you need a break OP. I mean you need to set an schedule. Do this Relax, eat, socialize, drink and sleep once a week.
You know what OP you are luckier than me. Why? Because I am lonely and tired of searching to make money in the internet. I read journey's here and it somehow motivates me but I don't know where to start in CPA/IM. I tried PPD but users keeps on flagging my videos. Anyone here want to help me in CPA? I need also a referrer to a CPA network.
If you are depressed you need a break OP. I mean you need to set an schedule. Do this Relax, eat, socialize, drink and sleep once a week.
You know what OP you are luckier than me. Why? Because I am lonely and tired of searching to make money in the internet. I read journey's here and it somehow motivates me but I don't know where to start in CPA/IM. I tried PPD but users keeps on flagging my videos.
Anyone here want to help me in CPA? I need also a referrer to a CPA network.
silentthunder
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I'm a former alcoholic.
Alcohol eats you up from the inside and retards your workouts by poisoning your inner
organs and glands.
Also you meditate so you know there's more than can be seen with the human eye.
They call it spirits for a reason. It's like a Welcome Mat for strangers. I'm not
religious by the way. God ain't religion imo.
My advice is volunteer work at the Biggest local soup kitchen or pantry. You'll feel good
and as far as the other volunteers. Three girls for every boy!
Alcohol eats you up from the inside and retards your workouts by poisoning your inner
organs and glands.
Also you meditate so you know there's more than can be seen with the human eye.
They call it spirits for a reason. It's like a Welcome Mat for strangers. I'm not
religious by the way. God ain't religion imo.
My advice is volunteer work at the Biggest local soup kitchen or pantry. You'll feel good
and as far as the other volunteers. Three girls for every boy!
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We all sometimes get bored and lonely by doing IM, even if you are running a company, you are seeing same people everyday, talking about same crap everyday, talking with clients about same crappy projects everyday, everyday seems same, that's the fact, but you can still entertain yourself with the money you earn, get your self a good PC or console ( ps4 and xbox one are hitting the marketing soon ) and play some online games, you will quickly find new friends, add them to social networks, xfire, playstation network, xbl or whatever you will use, talk with them, have fun, play games etc... or you can travel, find your self a girlfriend and start traveling, you can still do your job while traveling ( just don't forget laptop ) and you will have a lot of fun and some romantic time also ^.^ . Start visiting clubs, concerts or similar in your local town, find some new friends, pay few drinks etc., remember you have money, that means a lot, especially if you are targeting female friends .
Basically if you have a will to change your life and find new friends, girlfriend, start enjoying your life - YOU WILL, but if you don't, well ...
) and you will have a lot of fun and some romantic time also ^.^ . Start visiting clubs, concerts or similar in your local town, find some new friends, pay few drinks etc., remember you have money, that means a lot, especially if you are targeting female friends .Basically if you have a will to change your life and find new friends, girlfriend, start enjoying your life - YOU WILL, but if you don't, well ...
BIGBIGBIGMamas
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<<< INSERT TIME TO GET LAID >>> Put the alcohol DOWN and go out and meet somebody!
If you want to meet like minded ppl then make a move : http://www.meetup.com/find/
You didn't get where you are by chance, you most certainly won't get to where you desire next by chance either.
HANDLE IT!
If you want to meet like minded ppl then make a move : http://www.meetup.com/find/
You didn't get where you are by chance, you most certainly won't get to where you desire next by chance either.
HANDLE IT!
SysFailure0x5a
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- Jul 11, 2013
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Head over to JV and find a partner. At least when you're working on IM stuff you'll have someone to talk to and run ideas by.
I also noticed someone mention getting laid. Do that too.
I also noticed someone mention getting laid. Do that too.
Crashtest
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Hey mate! Take all the cash you earn and go somewhere cheap and noisy where you can spend it all on fun things... I'm thinking of India, Thailand all those countries! Bring your laptop and you can still check your earnings from time to time and tweak your sites, those countries all have nice wifi etc... You'll meet lots of cool people to connect with and maybe also some girls that want to f*k your brains out! Do that for a month or two you'll get out of there soon! I wish I could be on the other side already earning tons of €€€ but still got some work ahead haha!
theqavish
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Try to live a double life. One as Moneymaker/blackhatter and one as un employed guy with no serious work who wander here and there to have a chat with people and you would see very little people interested in you if you tell them that you do not do some serious work. Try finding people in your area on skype and make a gathering and discuss ideas.