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Try to date someone 
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It's because we are fed slave philosophies, be good, be boring, be safe, be honest, be soft, bleblebleble.
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You need to find what motivates you in your work in order to make money.
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Are you unhappy with your job? Going through a similar thing but for me it’s obvious that I need to make some changes and find a job that motivates me.
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Believe it or not, there are other, better employers. I had been traumatized on software house and SEO agencies but no more that bullshit.
I found better employers in education industry instead of that damn programming / marketing stuff.
Now they pay, they speak like real human, they don't do crazy shit and all goes smooth.
You can speak about anything with anyone there. Nobody is tense and everyone enjoys their time at workplace.
Keep the hard stuff you're passionate about for your own interest and business - don't ruin your passion at 9-5.
9-5 is good as means of survival. It should not be hardship. It should make your life easier. Otherwise, what's the point of a job? If having no job makes your life easier, you had a wrong job.
I found better employers in education industry instead of that damn programming / marketing stuff.
Now they pay, they speak like real human, they don't do crazy shit and all goes smooth.
You can speak about anything with anyone there. Nobody is tense and everyone enjoys their time at workplace.
Keep the hard stuff you're passionate about for your own interest and business - don't ruin your passion at 9-5.
9-5 is good as means of survival. It should not be hardship. It should make your life easier. Otherwise, what's the point of a job? If having no job makes your life easier, you had a wrong job.
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I haven't graduated and I had hard time. So how does that work?
I think it's that lack of work experience, real world and relationships is what makes us struggle.
Universities are fiction to some extent. They don't teach practice as much as real life does.
Look...
I have been writing at BHW for years now. I still can't speak English properly as I don't have real world expeience with it.
But I'm still better than most students at schools when it comes to writing in English.
Now when it comes to speaking, I have nobody to talk to in English. So I have to move to another country to practice.
It's not as easy as going to school for a couple years to master something. Oh no.
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My friend says the same. He ain't got nothing off university and only did that cause his mother told him to do so.
He dropped out after bachelor and started doing engineering full time which pays off up to this day.
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I used to work in a medicine factory lab. That's easy but also boring. I still nervous bc have to work more hours and get less pay.
Then I changed my job as this one, it's trader or something just bc I can speak English. Very hard for me.But higher paied than my previous one and i get more rest
I can tell my anxiety is from this unknown job bc i never learned it before
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I agree. Internship shits r so cheap and do errands every day
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That's the worst thing I experienced when it comes to work. Doing something you don't understand. Learning onsite is terrible stress.
I would change my job and get paid less if I had a choice in that type of situation.
Then pump money into some online venture while living frugally. Can be as simple as blogging. Just test ideas consistently in your free time.
Freedom > money > stress. I learned to do anything and not feel bored. It's not possible to do anything without stress on the other side.
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But that makes me much more tired. Only wanna slack on my bed and slouch in my sofa after working.
one kind of tire only in mind. I don't even wanna write my essay during working time tho I know it's not tired in body
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I would consult a mental health doctor, do some weightlifting and eat more calories. If you need more energy and awakeness, of course there are options like coffee.
You need to reframe your thinking. That's all I can tell you.
Once you reframe your thinking, your emotions, urges and impulses will change. Then you'll get more energy.
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That's kinda harsh to compare yourself to those who got it worst.
But it will work for some people.
For me it would spiral down into thinking "hell is on earth" which doesn't make my mood better. I'd rather be in heaven.
I like to compare myself to splishsplash or lucky.sparks or basstrackerboats...
For myself I like to appreciate what I have and see bright future with my skills. That's passion. I like it.
Even if I don't fit some group of highly skilled people, I still have my individuality and can create / engineer something they can't even with their super powerful university skills.
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It would somehow takes time , but you would be in flow within few months just it takes time !
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Exactly. Just stomp, destroy and stay on your beatiful track full of roses. Fck being humble. Be humble once you're rich.
Of course be soft and good to yourself, not to fckers who try to rob you. Be honest? In business and black hat? What...
Be boring? So don't do anything special... I have a purple suit and a black hat. Already better look than 99% of boring people.
All this "be good, be boring, be safe, be honest, be soft" sounds like some white-hat philosophy.
My version:
Be calculative, be exciting, be dangerous, be hard, be methodical, be risk-taker, have your own moral codex, don't destroy if it's not necessary (destroy imbecility mostly).
Of course in bedroom you don't have to be like that, just when you're getting sh1t done. Attack the fcking problems.
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