[Life Lesson] - Learnt by back2form

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Wilhelm Squee said:
No one is obligated to feel like they owe their parents anything - sometimes people have bad parents. That's all that they were trying to say.
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I do agree, some times people have bad parents, But it's very less % .
Most of the parents are Good as far as i see from my surrounding..
I love my parents,

I made this thread with a Feel of heart broken trust & real lesson learned in my Life. That's all I tried to say it here..
 
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back2form said:
Most of the parents are Good as far as i see from my surrounding..
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And that's the problem. You're only looking at it from your POV. Anyone else that challenges your POV suddenly has a problem.

90% of the people I know have shitty parents. My mother's father was an abusive alcoholic. He would lock the fridge, cabinets and pantry so his kids couldn't eat while he was gone.

Good parenting, right?

You love your parents. Good for you. Everyone else isn't so fortunate, and they probably have a damn good reason why.
 
Although I get the sentiment that @back2form is trying to make, on this occasion I have to disagree.

Some parents are terrible and should never had kids, and some parents although they mean well may try holding you back or be controlling.

The best you can hope for is parents that love and support you no matter what but at the end of the day it is all down to YOU as an individual to get the life that you want.
 
Looks like the OP is going to end up being 60 with 20 cats around the house and no one else, because he only trusts himself and his parents...
 
back2form said:
WTF is your problem here ?
If your dad is alcoholic, it doesn't meant you need to follow all his habits..
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But that's what your post implicates, are you 10 that you're unable to abstract that?

back2form said:
if he beats up your mom for any reasons - So he is not your dad or will you stop calling him dad ? makes sense
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Where did I say or implicated that?

back2form said:
Your dad is yours,
without your mom & dad - will you be here ?
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Define what makes someone your mom or dad? The biological ingridients sperm and egg or raising you?

back2form said:
stop talking about your dad bad things here.. This shows you're not following your dad or loving him because of alcoholic ..

Keep it yourself & stop posting shit answers in my thread.
because, I Love my Dad
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I wrote that as a hypothetical note, you lack basic abstrataction as I haven't said it's that way with my parents.

Also you posted some absolute statements allover that threat, did you really think no one would think otherwise
and everybody gonna pet your back telling you what a great boy you're?

You should go outside to the real world where people even parents could be mean and abusive to each other.
 
having lost a mother / father / step mom / in last 3 years. sometimes just sometimes
you miss that voice that says - it will be ok - sigh. but have to move on.
 
back2form said:
- Believe in yourself, and rest will fall into place, Have faith in your own abilities, work hard & there is nothing you can accomplish
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indeed! i know many people who work hard and still accomplish nothing.

some are on this very forum...
 
I feel for you OP. There are too many fish in the sea. Are you Sagittarius by any chance?
 
Another excellent thread from back2form.. keep these little pearls of wisdom coming mate, they make my day!

May I also make a suggestion.. I noticed that no one has opened a second thread to congratulate Ste on his 6 years here, someone really fucked up. I'd do it myself but I can't find the "create thread" button on this damn phone of mine, perhaps you can sort it out for us with another epic thread with those awesome big fonts and your 3rd person chatter.
 
To all, Who Trolls, Who laughs at, who suggested, who hates, who loves, who cares - Thank you everyone!

I've created this thread with my present situation & with my point of View. I do agree "some people have bad Parents"

I don't wish to write long story of what happened, why stopped trusting people, what makes to create this thread, Why huge Loss, etc etc - But the Biggest Reason for everything is #Trust , #Belief

If you trust someone very much, you will bring them home & get introduced with family members, have them lunch, dinner, invites for functions, Family Trip, share them your nature of business, business ideas, plan, personnel things, etc etc.. only if we believe they will be with us..

Even if we consider as family, Our My parents considered them as part in our family - they broke the trust! This is What Happened.
How it makes you feel ? How it makes you trust someone again ?

Not the single person am talking about here, Again i don't wish to make this as Brief note. To put this an END, Stopped Trusting anyone Too Much in both business & Family - that's the point of this Thread.

I trust #Myself & accomplish anything #Myself = back2form


@tymillz, i don't trust myself, when i use drugs :p
 
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