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Is this Sexual problem or normal thing..?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by donArmando, Nov 9, 2011.

  1. donArmando

    donArmando Regular Member

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    When i have sex with girls it may take 20-30 mins for the first ejaculation.
    Than the second one goes a lot more longer.

    with 1-2 girls i thought that it was the problem that maybe i wasn't enough erected by them but with other girls is the same thing.

    I mean, it's good for girls but i do not know if this is normal or no.
     
  2. marusia

    marusia Senior Member

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    I'd consider that completely normal. From what's understood, it would be better to have to take that long than to not be able to hold back after 1-2 minutes.
     
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  3. DigiWebUk

    DigiWebUk Regular Member

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    Noooooooooooooo!!!!! Your dick's going to drop off! That aint normal at all....

    It's going to shrivel up!!!!!!

    You need medications quick......




    Just hop over to my pre ejaculation site... and spend some money ;)
     
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  4. Wings[SENSE]

    Wings[SENSE] Regular Member

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    Perfectly fine. Consider yourself lucky you don't bust a nut in 2 min ;P
     
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  5. donArmando

    donArmando Regular Member

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    HAHAHAHAHA You are the Man :p
     
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  6. ytterium

    ytterium Regular Member

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    It's completely normal, in fact for your first round you are doing good :p

    Here is the reason why the second round usually takes longer:

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    Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ejaculation#Refractory_period
    
    Most men experience [COLOR=Lime][I][B]a refractory period[/B][/I][/COLOR]  immediately following an orgasm, during which time they are unable to  achieve another erection, and a longer period again before they are  capable of achieving another ejaculation. During this time a male feels a  deep and often pleasurable sense of relaxation, usually felt in the  groin and thighs. The duration of the refractory period varies  considerably, even for a given individual. Age affects the recovery  time, with younger men typically recovering faster than older men,  though not universally so.
    
    
     However, some men are able to achieve sufficient sexual arousal  immediately after ejaculation, and others may have refractory periods of  fewer than 15 minutes. A short recovery period may allow them to  seamlessly continue sexual play from one ejaculation to sexual  stimulation in preparation for the next. However, other men are averse  to stimulation during the early part of the refractory period.
    
    
     There are men who are able to achieve multiple orgasms, with or  without the typical sequence of ejaculation and refractory period. Some  of those men report not noticing refractory periods, or are able to  maintain erection by "sustaining sexual activity with a full erection  until they passed their refractory time for orgasm when they proceeded  to have a second or third orgasm".
    
    
    
    Cheers,
    ytterium
     
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  7. donArmando

    donArmando Regular Member

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    Thanks for the info.

    I started to thing that it may be any sexual problem.

    Thanks for the infos provided here.
     
  8. DigiWebUk

    DigiWebUk Regular Member

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    Stop worrying about it!!! FFS!!!

    Trust me it's perfectly normal!!

    :D
     
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  9. NoirHat

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    if 1-2 girls isn't working...try 3 to 4 girls
     
  10. dr.Hus

    dr.Hus Regular Member

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    this is so not cool :( i have same "problem" only without 0 -> first time 2-3 min

    damn i wish i did not read this :(
     
  11. DigiWebUk

    DigiWebUk Regular Member

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    find uglier girls.....

    Thats helps quite alot ;)

    Edit : or uglier men.... not sure what your into :p
     
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  12. davids355

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  13. Dan Da Man

    Dan Da Man Elite Member Premium Member

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    Maybe it has something to do with those bumps you got ;)
     
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  14. IKbentim

    IKbentim Power Member

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    Maybe you're gay.

    Definitely try to have sex with a man and if the same thing happens you know it's not that. If you do finish in 4-5 minutes it might be time to invest in a chihuahua dog and a rainbow flag.
     
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  15. donArmando

    donArmando Regular Member

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    LOOL
    Man it's not a dating site here so if you are a gay specie looking for your twin soul than i'm 100% sure that you can't find your lovely spirit here.:p:p
     
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    I don't know how pretty your girls are, sounds stupid but with a very nice girl, well you get very hard and try to hold on long. but with a little less it be different
     
  17. donArmando

    donArmando Regular Member

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    Well some of them that i used to sleep with weren't the best but some of girls that i've had in this 1-2 period of time are pretty pretty hot.

    I'm not saying that i'm not feeling it, i'm just saying that is it normal to take so long to finish it.
     
  18. BENNY8877

    BENNY8877 Supreme Member

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    It is completely normal, be thankful that you are not in the two minute club.
     
  19. IKbentim

    IKbentim Power Member

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    Wait a minute, is this thread just about you boasting how many girls you slept with?

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  20. DigiWebUk

    DigiWebUk Regular Member

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    or maybe he's touting for blackhat girls ;)