Actually, the thing is not that the moderation should be more tolerant.
Yes, it would be great if it could be smarter.
But absent that, the VERY FIRST step would be to make it more INFORMATIVE.
In other words, actually TELL users what exactly triggered the moderation system.
This is about being INTUITIVE and user friendly.
In the meanwhile it would be really awesome if you guys could come up with a feature that allows users to SUBMIT POSTINGS FOR REVIEW/APPROVAL.
That would provide you with an option to see which postings trigger the system WRONGLY, and all LEGITIMATE users would still be able to submit their postings.
I really think, that'd be a great compromise.
I actually suggested this a couple of weeks ago when I was talking to the admin, unfortunately I didn't hear back from him.
Still, this would seem to me like a very good compromise: retraining the strict moderation system (for all the valid reasons previously mentioned), while providing users with an option to still submit their postings and have someone (admins/moderators, trusted users) REVIEW such postings.
- adultonly