Is money really love

I have been in a different relationships but is not working out well, because I just got to know that every lady in a relationship with you is just there for your money and not love, it got me thinking, like I can have a relationship without money, I'm really worried about this,i need advice on this

Yes you can, you just have to make sure she isn't there for the money in the first place, let her know you are 'struggling' from the start, if she'll stay she'll stay.

Sure you can find someone who doesn't care about the money, but then, in my experience, most women look into whether or not you have a potential in becoming someone. You can be broke now, but if you have a clear goal and if you are striving to achieve it each day, then it's likely to be enough of a sign that you can create security in the long run ( that's what women like to feel ), thus good family material.

Now if you are broke and you sit on your ass and whine that you are broke and every girl is a gold digger, but continue to do nothing substantial for yourself, then you are screwed. Or you can have tons of money with that same attitude and once it's gone, so is she.

Key take away here is that confidence in yourself and your own abilities plays much bigger role than just having money. Ask how I know lol

I have to say. Money is too important, so there are lots of girls just gold diggers. Don't date girls who put money ahead of everything.

Having money never makes you a better human.

And if a girl has left a person because he don't have enough money (and if that is really the only case) then she deserves no respect at all.

As long as you are sure that you can/have/will earn the money without engaging in any inappropriate activity then you are all good.

With women you are going to pay out no matter how it works.

If you go with a prostitute you will pay money for sex, a straight transaction.

If you have a girlfriend you will need to treat you sometimes and pay for her sometimes like a gentleman.

If you have a wife, the man takes care of the problems in life.

No matter how you look at it, you will pay. You just got to decide if she's worth it.

My wife costs. But when she gets up in the morning and I look at her in the buff, I think to myself, yes she's worth the expense.

Nah, you are just choosing women with gold digger mentality. Not every woman is like that. It's like I would claim that every guy is a cheater .

Why are you not dating with independent, ambitious and intelligent women who can take care of themselves? Even here on BHW I see strong, hardworking and ambitious women. Just look around.

I'm at the beginning of the divorce trial. I have my own beautiful apartment (bought before marriage), my own good car, I can provide for me and my daughter convenient life, and I can take care of both of us perfectly. Even said to my future ex-husband that he doesn't need to pay child support for the first 6 months. Just to give him a chance to find/buy an apartment where our kid could stay at weekends or any time she wants.

I want a peaceful divorce without a verdict on his guilt. Here in Poland, we can choose, quick divorce without judging of the guilt, or longer and more difficult trial with judging who is responsible for the breakup of the marriage. With the second option I could in a court fight for alimony for me, don't work ever again and live for my ex-husband's money for the rest of my life but I won't do this. Even though he is a dick and I can prove this in the court (I have every evidence of his fault and additionally my best friend and her dad they are lawyers, really really good ones, they know every judge in our town etc so winning this battle it would be only a matter of time. My best friend said to me "just say one word"). But after all, he is still the father of my kid so I don't want to fight with him because it would be like throwing shit on my own kid at the same time.

Oh and for the first years of my marriage I was the one who was earning better money, and I was paying for all the extra stuff than after few years my husband got promotion in his job and he started to pay everything extra related to our kid, so now we are even.

So no, not every woman has a gold digger mentality! Just choose wisely!

Well, as a woman who has a steady income (I‘m not rich but living a good life) I would not date someone who is broke. Not because of the fact he is broke but for the reason he got in this situation. At least in my country nobody has to be poor.

Really bad idea to have such kinda relation

Why would you stay with a girl that likes you only for your money?

There’s plenty of normal girls out there, don’t adopt the intel status of “all girls want is money / looks”.

I’ve seen 3/10’s live happy lives with 9/10’s simply because they’re funny or charming.

@Paukerin are you from Germoney?

My advice
Just goto Pattaya and bang 3 girls a day for/$300/day.. short time..
Spend 6 days banging the best girl, getting a blowjob at terrace or at beach..
Then you won't be needing girlfriend anymore.. just stay with your parents and family they are the greatest people god ever sent to you..
!!Pectum serva!!

Paukerin said:

Well, as a woman who has a steady income (I‘m not rich but living a good life) I would not date someone who is broke. Not because of the fact he is broke but for the reason he got in this situation. At least in my country nobody has to be poor.

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Which country your from?

Paukerin said:

Well, as a woman who has a steady income (I‘m not rich but living a good life) I would not date someone who is broke. Not because of the fact he is broke but for the reason he got in this situation. At least in my country nobody has to be poor.

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I know what you mean, but there is a difference between a guy who is broke and lazy and a guy for example who works in the library (no shame for people working in a library but let's be real they aren't earning big coins there, especially in Poland ).

I don't see me in a relationship any time soon, but if something one day hits me in the head by accident and I get really confused and I start to think that I want to be in a relationship with someone again, I could be in a relationship with the guy who works in a library as long as he is working, he is smart and intelligent, he is a good guy etc.

Women wants security, and it can only happen with $$$$$. Its not about that women only needs money but yes combination of love and money!

you either have lots of money or be great at sex

Maybe you’re just hanging out with the wrong girls.

Just hide your money under your bed bro, than she can't take it

Money makes you powerful and strong and every woman loves strong and powerful men. It's just the nature of women and we can't say them golddiggers.

get a girl who has her own dreams & has some self respect. You surely won't find them on tinder or in pubs. Go to work with NGOs where lot of students come to help. I am sure you will find someone there