Is being " very kind" a reason to get rejected?

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don6644 said:
there are plenty of effeminate guys out there. I dont know why you are having trouble finding one.
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I didn't say I want effeminate one, I said I want someone good lol. That's your problem, you have weird 'this is feminine', 'this is masculine' but you just end up being neither. A looser at work/business, goes back home and terrorizes a woman, now he considers himself manly. And worse, goes around giving advice to other men on how to supposedly be manly. It's so flawed in every way.
 
Mohaegy said:
Hello

I go in a date with Turkish girl and in someway I express my feelings to her but she just rejected me in her way by telling my friend that " I was very kind"

I understand and respect her choice
But being " very kind" is Reasonable cause for women to reject man?

I mean it seems a little bit strange reason
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Do you think you were trying too hard too hard to get her or impress her that you forgot to be yourself?
 
SilverClouds said:
I didn't say I want effeminate one, I said I want someone good lol. That's your problem, you have weird 'this is feminine', 'this is masculine' but you just end up being neither. A looser at work/business, goes back home and terrorizes a woman, now he considers himself manly. And worse, goes around giving advice to other men on how to supposedly be manly. It's so flawed in every way.
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Acutally

Some women want to have a lot of Choice until she find " the best and perfect one"

Also some men do the same to date the most beautiful and attractive women

But when they become older and still didn't find that " perfect one" they just realize that they missed a lot of good chances in the past and realize that no body is completely perfect

But for me the real love is that you see something special in that person worth to go for.. Not all of people notice in him or her


In the end everyone have his own choices you can't just force anyone to like or love or go relationship with you if the feeling not the same for two side
 
Mohaegy said:
Hello

I go in a date with Turkish girl and in someway I express my feelings to her but she just rejected me in her way by telling my friend that " I was very kind"

I understand and respect her choice
But being " very kind" is Reasonable cause for women to reject man?

I mean it seems a little bit strange reason
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She needed to give you a reason. She was kind enough to give a good trait as a reason.
 
seoforever1 said:
She needed to give you a reason. She was kind enough to give a good trait as a reason.
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I know maybe she didn't want tell me the real reason to not seem rude or tough
 
don6644 said:
thanks for your contribution but you got the meaning of nice wrong. in this context nice is not the opposite of jerk. nice means a guy who has no edge to him, who is afraid of offending someone, who agrees with everything the girl says because he is afraid of losing her. still, I stand by what I said. expressing feelings to a girl (I am afraid of xyz, I like xyz" is a turnoff for girls for some reason. expressing feelings TOWARDS a girl (I like you, I have feelings for you" is death.
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don6644 said:
because you expressed your feelings and came off feminine. women say they want a guy who expresses his feelings, but in reality they hate such guys. they want a masculine guy.
never listen to what a woman says she wants. she wants the exact opposite.
you sound young and inexperienced.
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I think you need to stop posting in this topic.
 
I got rejected because so many boys says you are too much nice as i can't deserve you. :p
 
O, genuine kindness is rarely a reason for rejection,rather, it's often the lack of boundaries or passive behavior sometimes associated with excessive "niceness" that leads to rejection.
 
Thanks guys for your opinions and thoughts

Dating is just a way to find if two match each other and we didn't hope I find the one I match and hope same for her

Thanks again :)
 
No,being genuinely "very kind" is general not a reason for rejecion ; rather , rejection often occurs when "kindness" is passive ,lacks boundaries, or masks a lack of confidence or ulterior motives.
 
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