There are plenty of assholes and plenty of nice people here, you were just unlucky. Try again, someone will help you, especially since you offered to pay for it
Do remember to put it in the "hire a freelancer" section, if you have a specific problem that needs to be solved.
If you need information or help, simply say "I have a project that I am working on and I need a little help with something" instead of "I took a job and can't do it".
There is also a button at the bottom of the post box that says "Report Post".
If someone starts acting the ass, report them. If their conduct is acceptable, no harm will come of it, and if they are out of line, a mod will be nice and explain exactly what they did wrong.
If it turns out that you are out of line, then the mod will be nice enough to explain exactly what you did wrong, too.
Using the "report post" button actually improves this forum everyday, from spam to assholes, it keeps them both at bay, and teaches manners to those who have not learned them yet.
It straightened my ass out when I called someone a Dumbfu**. I seldom do that anymore.
I can be taught.