I'm so sad

mengfei

mengfei

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On July 9th, my girlfriend offered me a breakup. She was eight weeks pregnant, and on the 14th she had surgery and the baby was removed. We have been together since April 1st, during which we have not quarreled, but because of pregnancy, I have not cared for it, I have been in bed for a week, I have no strength to do anything, and I have no appetite to eat. I want to get her back, please what can I do
 
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Ya both made poor decisions (IMO)

This is a very sensitive matter, so...

 
mengfei said:
Yes, I regret it because she said we were both too young
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So maybe you should stop focusing on getting back into the relationship or any relationship at the moment and start working on being more responsible even towards yourself to start with, and it will reflect in other decisions you make moving forward.
 
Next time focus more on preventing pregnancy so you both don't have to go through something so traumatic. It's sad.
 
SirTop said:
So maybe you should stop focusing on getting back into the relationship or any relationship at the moment and start working on being more responsible even towards yourself to start with, and it will reflect in other decisions you make moving forward.
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Yes, I will return to her when I am good enough
 
How old are you?
It seems like you both are too naive to even be in a relationship, forget about being a parent. Think things through if you both can't commit to each other.
 
tomemerson said:
Just let her go
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Worth checking if she doesn't want a kid but wants him. Or maybe she doesn't want him either, idk.

This is serious operation (possible death during), maybe you are hurt mentally @mengfei but she actually has to recover physically now, you literally made her sick. Give her some time and check later if she wants you or not, she might not be very into talking with anyone right now.
 
Take time to heal first, physically and emotionally. Then reach out to her with honesty and care, without pressure.
 
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