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I'm kinda sad.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by blackdan, Mar 5, 2009.

  1. blackdan

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    I don't make alot of money, but I think I'm afraid to be success.There are so many ways, but I'm not doing it.I can see that if I want, I can make huge money and I'm even afraid to imagine that I make huge money.Isn't it possible to make ehh 100 thousands a day, if maths exist, it should be possible.So, should I make 100 thousand a day ? I don't know, I think its too much, I want to stop working online, I want to go out and get a life.I don't know when its going to stop.I thought I would reach 10 thousand a day and I will stop.I know I got to work, and it could take anywhere from 1 month to 6 or 12 months.I have learn alot alredy, but I havn't done alot of things.And there is alot of things to learn when I actually do things.How about I make 10 thousand a day, and then stop forever, then after 1 year, suddenly, they close my accounts, so earnings would be from 10 thousand a day to 0 a day.So, I can't stop working.And I'm sure I can't stop myself from checking stats everyday.I want to go out and work like other people.I should be in college now, I have never gone to college and I should be in year 2 or 3 now.I'm lost.

    Actually, I love working online, its comfortable, its cool, I am good at it, I enjoy it actually, but I usually spend 24 hours a day to things I enjoy and its not good spending 24 hours infront of a pc.Its like I'm living in virtual world.If I want I can stop, and after 10 years, I might look back and remember the days I use to spend online working, I would be always proud of the money and knowledge I have about internet.But if I want, I could stay online for another 10 years and die infront of my pc without anyone knowing that I'm dead.

    Is seo going to be useful in my life ?

    Life is so short to learn even 10 % of make money online tricks, there are so many ways.

    I got to live
    10 + 10 + 10 + 10 + 10 + 10 + 10 = 70 years

    20 years is gone, another 50 years, 10 years will past so fast and soon I will be 30, then 40, then 50 then I'm going to be old.

    I feel like the success I get is just money, not success in work, because knowledge of seo etc doesn't give anything, no body knows about it, unlike a writer, a business man, and other jobs, they get success in work and money but I only get success in money.

    I need some good advice, your advice can change my life.

    Any comments or advice is appreciated.

    (I feel like I cannot work online and live in real world at the same time, I got to do either 1 because when I work online I live in virtual world, my mind thinks and feel about it 24 hours.)

    its damn long.
     
  2. blackdan

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    I knew I'm going to be talking to myself, no comments so far.I will wait till 100 visitors and see if I get 1 % roi.
     
  3. blackdan

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    I should have post that in my notpad file and save it.
     
  4. justthinking

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    Dan, you only became a member here about four months ago. In those four short months, how much have you learned? I bet you know ten times the amount now compared to then.

    There are two lessons I think you may have not yet learned. First, don't give up. Really it is that simple. If you give up, then I can assure you that you won't make a dime. Second, take ACTION today. I don't care what you do. Your goal today is to make one dollar. That is right, one dollar.

    To me that one dollar will give you hope for tomorrow. Tomorrow, try to earn $1.50. I know people will laugh, but think of it like this: If you are able to do it, you have increased your business profitability 50% over night. Most businesses would love to be able to do it. Then everyday after that try to raise profitablity by 10% a day. Of course, you will have to incorporate new methods and additional income streams as time progresses, but you will gain knowledge and experience and it should be easier in the future.

    So mark I want to ask you some questions: What are you going to do today? Right now? Tell me how you are going to earn your dollar for today? I want to know. I will be looking for your response.
     
  5. adub

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    Maybe internet marketing isnt for you? it sounds like you want to make an impact somewhere in the real world, so maybe you should find a career path that you would enjoy and only do IM part time.

    For me personally success is money, I could care less about everything else, and I HATE working for other people being their b*tch and making them tons money, so id rather sit home and do this all day.
     
  6. blackdan

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    Thanks for response, I don't know what to do today to make $1.Thanks for response anyway.

    Thanks for response, I think success in life is not just money, how about a man who work in a big business, earn good enough to live happily, have many caring and loving people around and live happily.Lifestyle, name, travel many places, good experiances etc..

    I think 4-5 thousands a day is good enough to live happy.I don't need to compare with bill gates or other marketers around the world, I only care I make more than people in my society.I don't even need to make more than them, power is nothing if no one likes me.I just want to be her hero, or everyone's hero.
     
  7. nonhacker

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    internet marketing is NOT easy. these people who say it is easy lie..
    you have to work at it but to work at it you have to understand what it is they are telling you.

    as you see in here, you are never told the real step by step. you are given a guide line and told to adapt it to your own way. Well how can you do that when you dont understand it in the first place..

    Yea I make some $$ but it is only the few that make a lot of $$ after a a few months. Most are still trying years after they try.

    You have to keep trying. Maybe find someone that can do some things you dont, but you can do things they dont.

    I can make blogs and websites, know how to install scripts etc.. all the technical side of things.
    I have a couple of partners who do the rest, so we make money that way..
    working as a JV is good as you keep each other working and both have different skills and then teach each other stuff. Hell one of my JV partners doesnt want to know what or how I do it... Fine by me,. it works.
    But also there are those that have come to me expecting me to do everything and they sit back and do nothing... thats why I ask a few questions at the beginning and what i have works.

    Keep trying and you will find something or someone to work with, but you have to keep learning. listen to what (some ) people tell you or show you. Dont give up....
     
  8. blackdan

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    I have never jv with anyone, well, maybe the ways I make money doesn't need jv's.It just need knowledge.thanks for the response.I think u didn't read my thread, you just read the title, 2 lines in the middle and catch the tone/frequency because I didn't create the thread and ask "how to make money, pls".But thanks for the comments.
     
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    All right mark now you are beginning to get on my nerves. I tried to be nice in the first round (and believe me it is hard for me to do), so here is the second round.

    Please remove your head from your arse. I asked you a question. What are you going to do today to make one dollar? You can't tell me one thing? What skill set do you have? Build on it. Do you have hosting? A domain name? Have you done any keyword research? START RIGHT NOW.
     
  10. blackdan

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    Hey sorry, let me try 2nd round too.I will create a website, write an article and promote a product.I will try it, thanks man.You are nice.:)
     
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    Now that is the attitude. PM me and I will try to help you along the way and keep you motivated throughout the day. I will await your PM.
     
  12. nonhacker

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    WTF

    I read your thread... your title said I'm kinda sad. yea i read that to, but didnt comment on your title.

    you then said "Any comments or advice is appreciated."

    So i added a comment and you give shit back..
    as justthinking said.. get you head out of your arse...

    take what is said as what is said.. you start a thread then give people shit for answering.
    so why do people answer you... FFS
     
  13. genie1

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    Dude, this is in my opinion the best position to be in! Its called being on the bleeding edge, and you don't always get such an amazing opportunity. 11 years ago I too was on the bleeding edge doing things with ISPs before colleges and universities even had programs to teach what I knew. You just made things up and learned on the job as you went because the companies trusted you were the expert in this ''unknown'' realm to them. Take advantage and in 10 years time know that people will have to get certifications, credibility, and spend $100,000 and 6 years of school just to be ALLOWED to do the same thing as you are doing now :)
    You wouldn't believe the troubles I had explaining what my position was to friends, family and especially other employers who I wanted to work for until things became more mainstream, but you can still do it if you're passionate about it!
     
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    sorry man, actually I just read your response properly and it make sense ! thanks man, you did put in your mind when post and trying to help me.

    thanks :)
     
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    Thanks for response, I'm not just passionate about seo and stuff.I am passionate solely about money.Yea, its not like the knowledge I have today, others will have tomorrow, its a different line, people who never learn it will never knows it.Its marketing and its online, its virtual world, its not real world, it should be something doing part time but doing it part time will not achieve success.What if I know something powerful other people don't know, people do weird stuff just to be famous, they want to be famous, but there alredy things to be success in where people alredy accepted it, I don't know, its too lonely working online.
     
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    fuck, I just wrote a big rambling heartfelt reply to this and hit "previous Thread" instead of "Post Quick Reply"

    FUCK IT!!

    quick summary: what justthinking said, don't give up, BHW is full of generous talented individuals who can help you to achieve your goals, something something, then something about Napoleon Hill's 12 True Riches, here they are:

    Kinda took me by surprise, not my usual reading but def a good book.
     
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    I read it quickly but yea, most of them make sense.

    Its all in my mind.
     
  18. darkmobius

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    i don't get this "but I think I'm afraid to be success" afraid of what? You will be drown in a pool of money?
     
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    I don't get it too, just random thought, leave it.Like sometime, when success is near, I tend to go more far or something is simple I tend to make it complicated.
     
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    i think you should worry about that when you actually get there