I'm a positive thinker, are you ?!

A person can accomplish so much more if they are positive. They say statistically the guys that make it through buds, and especially hell week are the ones that stay positive through all their suffering. Guys can be in the best shape of their lives, but as soon as they start doubting themselves thats when they fail. So if you guys are ever having a bad day and want to give up, try to find some humor in it to help you get through it.

Too many people seem to confuse positivity with dreaming. It is not good to be positive. You must have a bit of both.

That comes with experience man

mickyfu said:

Too many people seem to confuse positivity with dreaming. It is not good to be positive. You must have a bit of both.

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You all, I mean ALL got the wrong idea.

That post is made a long time ago, but I'm still the same. Being positive doesn't mean ignoring all the negative, it's the opposite in fact. I take a negative thought, if it has some 'bad' cores, I turn it into a positive one. If it comes from the situation that has to be improved, action is all that's left, that's just in case, not to get lazy bitch.

Well, for negative thinkers, we can debate forever, but I'll tell you one thing, you're missing a lot, I hope you've heard that 'life is as wonderful as we make it', well, more or less that's true. Sooner or later we all need to develop a healthy mind that controls our lives. I'm on that path right now. To meet a negative event without getting overwhelmed by emotions and get out of it like nothing happened, that's the sort of thing I would want to have.

Talking about life, this world is a bitch, we all know that, positive mind means you take things realistically, without worries. I used to have negative mind for the whole 19 years, trust me, I know what that's like.

I'll tell you one more thing - have self-respect and everything will fall into place.

Don't argue about it anymore, it's pointless.

Cheers.

Perception changes a lot of things. This has been proven in the scientific world as well. That's why in testing drugs there's placebo tests. The way you think can also affect your body. "Mind over matter" has been proven to work.

Mind-setting has been around a long time and has been used by sales and business professionals since the dawn of time.

i am trying to be positive thinker, and it makes me enjoy what my situations and any conditions i have, especially when people around me was get crowded, i can handled myself to calm, not to get rush for anything, and the best is, i can still think positive and i can trying to understand what and where is the way to go.

so, let think positive, and positive thinker

cheers and greetings to all bhw member

I'm neither positive nor a negative thinker. I am a realistic one.

Jonny Quick said:

I deny the whole concept of "positive" and "negative" thinking. Too simplistic, too stupid and not useful. I'm positive it's a negative idea.

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If I start to agree with you, is it a positive thinking or negative one?

ryannull said:

I'm neither positive nor a negative thinker. I am a realistic one.

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Positive thinking doesn't mean you're living in dreams

May be it's the time to stop the e-whoring business? j/k

Oukast said:

Only thing positive about me is my HIV test result

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Gone through a lot of hard times and that positive thinking was the only thing I am still alive, Positive thinking is very important if you want to survive in this World.

Yes, yes I am.

"The Magic of Thinking Big" by David J Schwartz changed it for me.

If you think you can, or think you can't; you're correct on both counts. What we think makes it so...At a base level this is true but thinking positively alone, wanes. It takes deeper methods such as C.B.T. to re-frame your thought processes so that you see the reality in every situation and judge it accordingly. When you master this type of thought process you're in control of every situation in your life without being a Pollyanna or a negative Nelly...

I always have some Bob Proctor videos on Youtube that I play during the day. Also a couple of his mantras are in my head so when I feel that I am slipping a little I will repeat his sayings in my head. Works for me.