I feel depressed

Its a part of life. You will eventually move on to this.. But yeah this kind of situation is depressing..
 
i felt the need to post in this thread because i have a story to tell. it's not pretty but if you want read on.

i broke up with my girlfriend around 3 weeks ago and i still feel sick to this day. I started to think that it was all my fault and , let me put it this way, i punished myself for it.

I broke all social contacts, i left my home, i don't talk to my mom anymore, i quit my job and worst of all is that i have cut myself on purpose. i felt like killing myself and i felt worthless. But then my parents showed up and talked me through, taking care of me and even finding a job for me. I still felt like shit but at least i have something to hold on to. I'm seeing someone to talk about the cutting problem (to those who don't know, it's addicting and you can't quit without help) and i said sorry to all my friends. My life is still upside down from what seems a little problem, but truth is some people can't handle a broken heart so well as others

The point of this story is to tell you that you should talk to people that are close to you instead of isolating yourself from everyone. Secondly i suggest getting a job if you don't got one and if you do i suggest you work your ass off. It distracts and while you're busy you don't have time to think about her. And lastly, don't punish yourself in any way for what happened. You're a human being and everyone makes mistakes and thinks "i would have done that differently given the chance"

I wish you the best of luck and i feel sorry for you.
I don't know you , but you may Pm me if you want to talk
 
"If she left - she's not the one
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Completely agree. Whatever may be the reason.
 
Perfect for OP story.


Saying goodbye is never an easy thing
But you never said, that you'd stay forever
So if you must go
Well, darlin, I'll set you free
But I know in time
That well be together
Oh, I wont try
To stop you now from leaving
Cause in my heart I know

(chorus)
Love will lead you back
Someday I just know that
Love will lead you back to my arms
Where you belong
Im sure, sure as stars are shining
One day you will find me again
It wont be long
One of these days
Our love will lead you back

One of these nights
Well I'll hear your voice again
Youre gonna say, oh, how much you miss me
You walked out this door
But someday you'll walk back in
Oh, darling I know
Oh, I know this will be
Sometimes it takes, sometime out on your own now
To find your way back home

(repeat chorus)

But I wont try to stop you now from leaving
Cause in my heart I know...oh yeah

(repeat chorus)

Love will lead you back
Someday I just know that
Love will lead you back to my arms
It wont be long
One of these days
Our love will lead you back
 
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We have all been there.
Your mind will play tricks on you and tell you she was perfect and the dream woman - She isn't and it's good you found out now so you can move on.
All you have read up to this post is right, even the seemingly harsh "man up" stuff. I wasted way too many hours and too much cash trying to get women back. Definitely not worth it. DO NOT try and get her back - you will seem desperate and weak and women want a man, it will only make you feel worse and in the long run will not work.

And in case she said "it isn't you, it is me", well, it was you. But that's ok. Someone will want you for you and that is so much more satisfying than trying to be someone else to impress someone you think is perfect. Don't change you, just change the woman.

At some point you will get a new woman that you stick with and you will be so glad you stop worrying about this one,there is ALWAYS someone else.

Good luck.
 
Hi guys,

I feel much better now. I'm still missing her and I still love her but somehow I accepted that we are not together anymore. I will leave her for a while and then I'll probably will try to take her back. I was at party in a club with some girls, there was a pictures in facebook and she was upset of that. She told her 2 friends that she is sad about and this upset her. I will continue ahead and she will want to take her back - this was words of couple of girl friends of mine.
 
To move your depression away, you need to get laid with 10 new woman in next 30 days. Over 1 month I won't even remember that girl you used to love to death
 
Go to the gym, and go alot. It helped me. Be social, try not to be at home alone. Always be active.
 
When I feel/felt like that.. I dig up that fire from inside... put 2 middle fingers up at the world and (metaphorically) get myself ready for battle. I find SOMETHING (anything.. makes no difference)... and I work at it! Even if after a week month of working at it.. I screw it up and start again...

Create your motivation...

(plus very very loud Rap-Metal helps... Rage Against The Machine - Killing in the name of)
 
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