I feel depressed

Petko

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Hi guys,

I just broke up with the women of my dreams and I feel pretty depressed and upset ....
 
It happens to all of us, even the best of us. You will get over it.
 
Things could always be worse; you could be broke like me.

Try engaging in some activity you like and you will eventually forget about it.
 
Thank you buddy for the support. I tried to be the man she wants, but I failed. I never cheated on her, never thought about another woman. But the things doesn't worked out. We have started to fight about small things and we never has any big problems in our relationship. She said that those small things make her upset and she is not happy...


Thats sad man, I feel you.. I know how it feels
 
Everyone has been through it man. You'll meet someone better who is loyal and is willing to fight for you. If she gives up on you that easy imagine when something big comes along. It'll get easier as time goes by and you start to meet new people.
 
It's very painful at first. But I speak from experience when I say time heals all wounds. Seriously. Clichhed as it may be.

Throw yourself into some activities: work, getting in better physical shape, games (Skyrim, WOW). These are only band aids, but they help distract you a little, and eventually the pain goes away.

And when you're in the right place, you'll find someone else and wonder what all the fuss was about.

(hugs)
 
Thank you buddy for the support. I tried to be the man she wants, but I failed. I never cheated on her, never thought about another woman. But the things doesn't worked out. We have started to fight about small things and we never has any big problems in our relationship. She said that those small things make her upset and she is not happy...

All we can do is try.

Hanging out with friends and being social always helps. I know, the thought of that sucks right now and you want to be alone but trust me, wallowing by yourself is worse. Even if you don't engage much, just being in the same environment as your friends/family - you won't feel as crap.
 
Thank you guys for the support. I feel like a crap now... We have been together for 2.5+ years . I really LOVE her and I was thinking that she is my soul mate. I had plans to married here... feel really bad now
 
Dont worry my brother.......It will heal with passage of time in start it hurts to me too.now i have break ups every week :)
 
Smoke weed 24/7, that's gonna help for sure haha.

Well, talking seriously, it's gonna get better with time, just get distracted and do some activities to keep your mind away from her.
 
Sorry to hear this mate, It happens to us all, and what I'm going to say might be considered quite abrupt. But, you have to man up and get on with things. Life, as short as it is, will throw far worse things at you in the future. Move on. Forget about her and use your free time to hit the gym, you will come out a stronger person both mentally and phyically because of this experience.
 
I do not understand what you will try to say buddy...


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to eat pussy
 
If you just type down your thoughts on a card ... instead of telling us how much you love her.. tell her that send her some flowers .. thats all you need to be with her again.
 
Maybe it wasn't the woman of your dreams after all...

Your loses started when you "tried to be the man she wanted"

Thats a recipe for disaster as you now know.

Good thing you DIDN'T marry her or you'd be in a super depression if you think you're depressed now. All in all, its a not a big deal in reality. Learn from it, move on. I doubt your "soul mate" wants you to mold yourself into her view of the world. Just something to think about.
 
That can be heartbroken but that only give you a chance to focus on you and start a new life or just stay focusing on you.
 
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