I am terrible son

If you were wronged by them I can see that to an extent. My mother didn't show up to my wedding because she was jealous i spent time with my dad. I still talk and goto family functions with her but our relationship just isn't quite the same. She never said she wasn't coming or anything, I thought there was an accident and they were hurt.

My dad passed 3 years ago and it really hurt. I would only get to see him a couple times a month and we just had the first grandkid that he was absolutely ecstatic for.

Anyway, up to my man. Not a day goes by i don't think about him but like others said. Once they're gone, they're gone.
 
I feel you, I'm trying to spend more time with my parents but it's really difficult to schedule them into my life
 
Of course, I spend time with my parents. These are the most valuable people in my life. If I were you, I would review my attitude towards parents.
 
Are you going to share link to this thread? Maybe, just call them? :)
 
Don't know when i've hanged last time with my parents. Maybe 10 years ago.

They invite me in various places but I always say no. I rejected them over 100 times in a row, lol.

I will probably regret it.


Do you spend time with parents?

its not lol thing at all, they are human who tried their best and had some problems too, its not like you are perfect, when you are older you will understand it better
 
Don't know when i've hanged last time with my parents. Maybe 10 years ago.

They invite me in various places but I always say no. I rejected them over 100 times in a row, lol.

I will probably regret it.


Do you spend time with parents?
Suck up your ego and go see them, else your ego will suck you up instead, but then it's gonna be too late.

P.S: As friendly as possible with my clearest intentions :)
 
Disregard what they did to you for you to avoid them. And even if they interfere in your independent adult life just say yes and you will keep it in mind.
Once they are gone no matter how tough you think you are, the numbness will stay with you as long as you are stubborn. Invite them to go out.
 
Lol, am a more terrible person and seriously, I don't blame my self for that. My dad always looks for ways to annoy me. He talks to without respect and say all manner of thing in front of my younger ones. Am the first born and currently 20 and I thing I deserve more than what am getting. When I got into college last year, I decided to stay away from home as long as possible. I come back maybe once in 3 months and leave the next day. Some of my friends has advice me to stand up to him and faght back bit I just ignore it all. Whenever he is talking to me, I just keep mute and hold my anger. I can stay months without talking to him.

I know I will probably regret all this someday but I don't care anymore!
 
100% !! Try to change that shit u are on is not worth it. I fucking love my mom !
 
Don't know when i've hanged last time with my parents. Maybe 10 years ago.

They invite me in various places but I always say no. I rejected them over 100 times in a row, lol.

I will probably regret it.


Do you spend time with parents?

I don't know which country you're from, but stay in touch with your parents. There will be a day where they won't be there to visit or to call, and you'll regret it.
 
One thing is clear, I would never do any busines with you and we will never be friends :)

qgr4NSM
 
This thread made me think twice about not going to the "Family Sunday's" :o

A balance is always good :)
 
OP, I don't know your situation but if they are inviting you it seems like they care about you, and want you in attendance as part of the family.
I don't know how old you are, or your parents are but if they love and care about you, embrace them, give them love. Otherwise you WILL regret it one day and I hope you don't!
 
I called the folks after reading this thread.
 
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