how to get a gf when all you do is go to work, come home, and browse bhw and reddit?

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Also too ugly for online dating and don't have social pics to make myself look fun/interesting for obvious reasons. Any advice?
 
when all you do is go to work, come home, and browse bhw and reddit?
Why is that all that someone must do ? Go outdoor for a walk (or jog) everyday, speak with random people, about random things. Join a gym and workout there atleast 3 times a week or do daily workouts at home. Visit some events, when possoble and meet new people and get acquainted with new people and life will be productive and fun. And ... along the way, you may (ideally should) meet with a wonderful person who can be an awesome life partner or a girlfriend for you.
DISCLAIMER : I mentioned "get acquainted with new people" and that does NOT mean make new friends. Infact, have a limited number of selected friends only and let them be people who are growth oriented, so that they have a contributory factor to your growth.
 
You need to put yourself in a position to find a girl, one isn't just going to show up at your door.

What are your hobbies and interests? Now ask yourself where would a girl with similar interests be hanging out. With your current routine nothing is going to change unless you do bro.
 
Also too ugly for online dating and don't have social pics to make myself look fun/interesting for obvious reasons. Any advice?
If you only work and browse internet, you are doing something wrong with your life. First fix that, a potential GF may come next.

Never put the cart in front of the donkey.

And if everything fails, you could read the ideas suggested in thread from @RoiBox and see if you have luck with them.
 
Also too ugly for online dating and don't have social pics to make myself look fun/interesting for obvious reasons. Any advice?
You are not ugly my friend. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I am convinced that everybody can make him- / herself at least a 6/10. How? Go to gym, wash / brush your teeth every day, smell nice, use skin care products, get a nice hair cut, get a feeling how to dress nice. Boom! you are a 6/10.

If you want to be a 7/10 do following:
Step 1: Get rich.
Step 2: Buy a car.
Step 3: Still get no girlfriend.
 
First of all, change your perceptions. Don’t be a loser, style your hair, get rid of mustache and beard, don’t dress like a clown, just casual humble fashion would be more than enough. Try to contact beautiful female classmates on social media. Try to date one of them, because they know you better than an arrogant stupid chick with instagram with thousands of followers.
 
Work smart, look good and have loads of cash with the things you learnt on BHW.
Girls will always come when you have the things i mentioned
 
Go outside, do you have friends?
A lot of that happens by meetings friends of friends
 
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