I had a full-time job and spent a year in my spare time roaming around ( a lot of the roaming was on this forum) you need to give yourself time and figure out your direction, you need to get uncomfortable and try a million different things-figuring out what works and doesn't work for you. Think out of the box-not just gigs here and there but what is your passion? What will get you excited to get up in the morning? Give yourself a budget to experiment with various things-ecom, gigs, marketing, traffic driving, SEO or whatever sounds interesting to you-walk this path my friend and you will find a direction. A few years ago I was in the same situation, things change.