How is your life ?

how is your life ?

  • My life sucks. Im unhappy. Shit :(

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  • Im very happy

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This year I took my business way above 6 figures so yeah....LIFE IS GOOD :)
 
When I replaced my full-time J-O-B with Internet Marketing my happiness reached a new level :)
 
My life was shit. I broke up with my girlfriend, I was travelling a lot trying to find a place that I liked, like I was running away from something. I was spending more money that I was making on partying, drugs and drinks. And I'm still young so it's not a problem. I settled somewhere and starting working harder than ever, started going to the gym and focused on my hobbies. Things are looking up, I'm saving my money, living comfortable and still going out :)

Oh and I'm over that chick. Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks!

I'm out like the NBA season this year. Peace.
 
I'm generally a positive person, I look on the bright side and try to make the best of life.

I own a bar and due to various complicated factors we're struggling a lot at the moment with cash flow, and that business takes up a lot of my time. Whatever spare time I have I'm using it to try to make money online - I do make money online but not very much - about $10 - $20 daily, which is fuck all when you live in London. I have hardly any time to sleep or eat or look after myself properly.

Tbh this whole "happiness is a perspective" philosophy is all well and good, but sometimes even a positive attitude won't get you out of a rut. I'm constantly anxious that it's all going to go to shit, I have butterflies in my stomach 24/7.We're running out of money and can't see a way out.

My bar is quite high profile in my town and so I'm a known face to the locals... if the bar fails I'll lose so much face, I'll have to move away from my life that I've built here because I honestly won't be able to face people, and anyway I won't be able to pay the rent so that means moving in to my mum's house (who will happily let me stay, bless her)... but then still, facing the shame of doing that and the questions from everyone I know, my friends, my family, it's just completely unbearable.

I'm averaging about 12 hours of sleep... a week. I'm going flat out to try to make extra cash with IM to save this situation but not getting anywhere fast. What's frustrating is the bar is really unique, nothing like it in the whole of London, and all the customers really fucking love it, always shaking my hand telling me how it's the best place they've been to etc. We started it a year ago and had so many doubters and haters but we showed everybody how it's done, so many people "took their hats off" to us, because now we're the busiest place in town. Everyone thinks we're rich but they don't fucking know the truth, that I can't even afford to buy new clothes and I'm surviving on Tesco Value food. I have to go and shop from out of town because owning a bar is all about the big bluff and if people knew the real situation they would talk and it would affect business.... "OMG you won't believe it, I saw the owner of XXXXX Bar buying this and that in the supermarket, you'd think he'd buy better things" etc etc... No way in hell can someone from around here can see me buying budget food.

When things are getting worse and worse week on week, debts getting bigger, and you're doing everything you can to try and make more money and still failing, you can have as positive an attitude as you want but it won't solve the fucking situation. I have the motivation and I work so hard man, so hard. As does my business partner. Yeah I know, if I lose everything I can say hey, i've got my health, my family, my friends.... but as I said if I do lose everything I won't be able to face any of my friends or my family, and I won't be able to come back to this town again... I've been here like 8 years.

So yeah, life's shit at the moment! Well hey, at least I've had the chance to get it off my chest here.
 
I make a decision

1. I will try to get rich from IM

2. I will help people who need help

3. I will go to gym

4. Hereupon I will try to think positive

BUT I HAVE A BIG PROBLEM. I CAN'T SOLVE THIS PROBLEM AND I CAN'T TELL IT
 
jimbodmit said:
I'm generally a positive person, I look on the bright side and try to make the best of life.

I own a bar and due to various complicated factors we're struggling a lot at the moment with cash flow, and that business takes up a lot of my time. Whatever spare time I have I'm using it to try to make money online - I do make money online but not very much - about $10 - $20 daily, which is fuck all when you live in London. I have hardly any time to sleep or eat or look after myself properly.

Tbh this whole "happiness is a perspective" philosophy is all well and good, but sometimes even a positive attitude won't get you out of a rut. I'm constantly anxious that it's all going to go to shit, I have butterflies in my stomach 24/7.We're running out of money and can't see a way out.

My bar is quite high profile in my town and so I'm a known face to the locals... if the bar fails I'll lose so much face, I'll have to move away from my life that I've built here because I honestly won't be able to face people, and anyway I won't be able to pay the rent so that means moving in to my mum's house (who will happily let me stay, bless her)... but then still, facing the shame of doing that and the questions from everyone I know, my friends, my family, it's just completely unbearable.

I'm averaging about 12 hours of sleep... a week. I'm going flat out to try to make extra cash with IM to save this situation but not getting anywhere fast. What's frustrating is the bar is really unique, nothing like it in the whole of London, and all the customers really fucking love it, always shaking my hand telling me how it's the best place they've been to etc. We started it a year ago and had so many doubters and haters but we showed everybody how it's done, so many people "took their hats off" to us, because now we're the busiest place in town. Everyone thinks we're rich but they don't fucking know the truth, that I can't even afford to buy new clothes and I'm surviving on Tesco Value food. I have to go and shop from out of town because owning a bar is all about the big bluff and if people knew the real situation they would talk and it would affect business.... "OMG you won't believe it, I saw the owner of XXXXX Bar buying this and that in the supermarket, you'd think he'd buy better things" etc etc... No way in hell can someone from around here can see me buying budget food.

When things are getting worse and worse week on week, debts getting bigger, and you're doing everything you can to try and make more money and still failing, you can have as positive an attitude as you want but it won't solve the fucking situation. I have the motivation and I work so hard man, so hard. As does my business partner. Yeah I know, if I lose everything I can say hey, i've got my health, my family, my friends.... but as I said if I do lose everything I won't be able to face any of my friends or my family, and I won't be able to come back to this town again... I've been here like 8 years.

So yeah, life's shit at the moment! Well hey, at least I've had the chance to get it off my chest here.
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I wasn't going to reply to this thread. I am in my bed, it is late at night and typing on a touch screen tablet is annoying when you're about to go to bed. So i want you to understand that I am writing this purely to try and give you some honest advice on ho you can succeed and overcome your problem.

You say you are making $10 a day from IM. I never really got into IM but from what I hear, people start off making a dollar or two a day and that is considere good or average. So from that there, I can tell you are doing something right. You hav a skill, of some sort, to be doing that.

My honest recommendtion to you, and I would personally be of the opinion that you are 'silly if you don't give his a good, long honest think is that you should look at 'offline marketing'.

We have a dedicated section here in this forum, and also the Warriorforum is a good resource for the 'offline market'.

I know you might be tight on time due to owning the bar, but hey... you're the one who said you work hard, right? Sometimes making excuses just won't cut it - when you're in the shit, you need to do something about it.

Even if you made $20 per day for a month, that's $600. You can spend 2 hours calling local businesses (or maybe not so local as you dont like to get your rep in the way) and offer to build them websites. In two hours of pure hard calling, I would say you would make a sale. Even if you need 3 hours for a sale. Charge them 300 pounds or a little more, cheap, but not too cheap. Jus to get yourself started. Designing the site won't take long, knock it up in WP and thats it. Do that for a few day and you're making good money.

You can sell SEO services too. Facebook designs. You can sell logo and business card designs, and outsource to fiverr.com for $5, pay someone double , $10 for a 'good' joband sell it to a business for $100. Easy easy stuff.

Come to think of it, you own a BAR!!! You said it gets packed?? Are yo monetizing that traffic? Approach local businesses, offer to put up special offers of theirs (advertising) for a monthly fee. Do it with a couple businesses and you're making some good monthly revenue for doing no additional work!

Time for bed here, but i hope things work out for you, and anyone else in this thread who voted that their lifeis crap. Life really is what you make of it, think positive. This is mainly geaed towards people who have nothing physically or personally wrong, as things like that might make it a little hard to be 'positive' but otherwise, if nothing is majorly wrong (girlfriend broke up with you, you lost your job, etc) then it applies.
 
Kickflip said:
My Blackhat Lifestyle Motto:
I'm going to try to make this world a better place. I hope you all see my name in the headlines one day as a guy who contributed positively to the world. But for now, just let me peddle my services and spam your blog. If you dont want to give me a link, flag me as a spammer or delete and move on. Thank you, and good luck to everyone.
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This made my day man!
:)
I feel the the same thing srzsly!
 
nuclearrap said:
I have a distress but I don't know the cause.
I can earn money but money is not happiness.
We need to money for only live.
I had big dreams but now I'm disappointed
I want to die and go to heaven


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I'll Be Real With You Man, It's Never About The Money. The Money Is Only A Convenient Excuses For Not Asking The Big Uncomfortable Questions In Life.

I Think You Might Be Having A Bit Of An Existential Crisis Right Now And Want Some Of The Answers To Some Of Those "Big" Questions. I'm Sorry To Say That I Can't Answer Them And Make Things Alright, Since Most Of Them Are Relative And Depend Completely On You, But I Can Give You Some General Advice That Opened My Eyes And Set Me On The Right Path So To Speak.

You Have To Find What Makes Life Worth Living For Yourself, And I'll Let You Know Right Now It's Not Going To Be Related To Money Or the Accumulation Of "Toys" (Although They Can Be Fun). Once You Find That Something That You Can Devote Your Life To Then The Money and The Happiness Related Problem All Get Put Into Perspective.

I Know It Might Seem Rough Right Now And That Life Might Not Be Worth Living, But That's Simply Because You're Stuck Working In The Trenches. Lift Your Head Up And Realizes That You Aren't Just Chipping Away At Stone And You Aren't Simply Supporting Yourself, Your Creating The Masterpiece That Is The Rest Of Your Life.

Hope That Helps :p
 
Kickflip said:
I agree with this.

If you have extra money, share it with people who need it. (But be reasonable, don't make them 100% dependent on you. Make sure they know its just to help them out and you won't be able to do it forever)
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If you give people money they will just blow it and not use it for something useful, i learned that with the first few people i decided to help out with money.

Then, i thought i would help people out by giving them basic needs, later to find out the homeless will trade items received for a few bucks to buy their addictions, and that some single mother's were just freeloading on some items i would donate to a local organization by saying they were earning low wages, when they really were not.

It's difficult to give, some people don't take advantage of your help and just blow it.

so i decided donating for breast cancer research, organizations that help children with disabilities/diseases etc....and also education for the poor. I just donated like 10 computers to a school in latin america, not much but something.

Money doesn't make happiness, it helps paying the bills and having no financial burdens, but what about one's emotions?
 
My life is good. I have Pain & Sorrows too. But when I look around and see there are others who are in more troubles, sorrows..........I gotta say : "Thanks GOD".

I'm fortunate than many others......I love my life.......I'm simply greatful :)
 
I'm so jealous with you guys!! My life is fucked up! Trying to make some cash at least $50/day but I have not :(
 
Its annoying when people say "oh just suck it up, its not that bad", or "Just look at people around you, there are tons of people worse off". What if the people here that are saying they have "Shitty lives" are those people you are looking at saying "Man they have it bad, im glad for what I have". I'm doing decently in life right now but life in general has been a massive struggle, I have been to hell and back, close to death several times. You don't know the shit people are dealing with, or have dealt with. Anyone that hasn't experienced "shit" shouldn't be talking and if you have you should have empathy.
 
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To sum up my life - No More Pain.
I need to learn to live again because existing is such a strain.
 
Reading the whole thread gave me the courage to post my response.

I look at things positively and know there is light at the end of the tunnel.

But I don't seem to be able to reach that light. Being a single mom (India) with lack of financial knowledge, I made a mess of my finances. Was fairly well off but in just 7 years, got myself into deep sh**.

With about $50,000 in debt hanging over my head like the Sword of Damocles, I made the biggest mistake of my life - that of trying to earn all of it overnight. Don't ask me what I did, I messed it up and landed deeper in trouble.

During this phase, I stopped writing (am a freelance writer), stopped working on my Internet marketing endeavors (Internet marketer too), and all my income came to a stand still.

Things are so bad now that I don't seem to be able to think positively anymore. Now at a critical stage where I need to make at least $10,000 in the next couple of months.

And I have big dreams of reaching $1000/day by the end of 2012. I know you may laugh at me for dreaming sooo big, when I'm down in the dumps right now. But I'm confident I can get out of this.

I try to be strong in front of others and my family has no idea what I'm going through. I just wish I can get out of this by myself, without having to seek financial help from my family.

Thanks for reading guys. I'm relatively new here, but loving the way BHW members come together and are willing to listen to others. Sometimes, all one needs is a kind word saying that things will be fine.

I'm overwhelmed by all the warmth and the positive vibes here.

It's not easy to lay my feelings bare in public, but I needed all this positive energy. :)
 
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can any one tell me which is the easiest way to die :) without knowing pain

bewithme465 said:
what a thread it is, i too want to share here

my life is again full of shit

i worked hard for 3 years earned money and i was with full on money, started going to late night parties, i used to spend 50$ to 100$ daily so i got a lot of friends (who are not real friends). i spend money for every friend who come to me, dri**s, Bi**hes, so i didnt saved much money because of this wastage i done to stupid friends and also given credits to my friends. :)

THE DAY CAME TO ME FOR REALIZATION OF NOT SAVING MONEY

6 months back on feb 26th time 1730 IST For just playing a 5 minutes of volleyball changed my entire life into garbage. while playing volleyball my left knee legment seriously injured.

so i was on bed for 4 months, no income : troublessssss started , every one started escaping no one visited to me when i was on bed. NO CALLS,
what i earn from the days all went to the friends parties e.t.c., (hope u understand) daily, i used to spend money like water. i never respected to money. Day came then realized my friends who took money they never try to answer my calls, no income and my girl friend married to other guy:D said to me hope u recover well soon :18: i laughed for 3 days.

I hope My life was vanished due to i didn't care my family who are real friends in your life GODS gift. my family took care of me 4 months when i was on bed :D everything on bed it self :naughty: .

i tried to die taking sleeping p..ils but unlucky it was not happened but i was slept for 3 continuous days. :swordfigh might be.

After that i stopped trying this shit things and i decide to start earnING money than before
so NOW I WANT to be a millionaire AT ANY COST and i want to show up each and every fucking guy left me and showed there back to me especially the bitch MY EX-LOVE married :slap:.

But it is not easy to earn money from the start BEGIN,

but i will not give up rather i will die :D

LIFE IS A FULL OF SHIT HAPPENS ----------------


THANKS FOR READING

I AM SORRY IF THIS IS STUPID POSTS TO YOU (if you feel) EVEN THANK YOU MUCH

BUT I AM GLAD TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL AFTER 6 MONTHS I SHARED MY LIFE WITH SOME GUYS HERE :) THANKS FOR THIS FORUM
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