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How is She getting in my Facebook Messenger?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by James2, Jun 18, 2013.

  1. James2

    James2 Senior Member

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    Hi guys,

    I have a suspicious girlfriend who can somehow access my FB messenger history on my phone from anywhere in the world, not just on the same wifi network. My password is totally random and has been changed many times and no keylogger has been installed on my computer or laptop.

    Please help :p

    J
     
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  2. ExpressFans

    ExpressFans Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Dump her mate! I've had my fair share of experience with overly attached girls and my conclusion: It's not worth it!
    Dump her and find someone who will trust you.

    Regarding your question maybe you have clicked "save password" on your computer browser. If she goes to the settings she can see all your passwords.
     
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  3. Rotem Guez

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    Kill her:)
     
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  5. amIdreaming

    amIdreaming Regular Member

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    yeah, more and more girls are learning how to hack just to spy their boyfriends, watch out guys!
     
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    Good to see you back! I think that she might be using firesheep PM me and I will tell you what it's for, I don't want to post it publicly.
     
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    Maybe She's a NSA agent ! :embarasse
     
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    Maybe she is logged in to your account on her phone and just hasn't signed out yet. I dont think facebook signs you out once you change your password.
     
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  9. James2

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    long time no speak tom. Cheers mate :)
     
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    Probably still logged in and hasn't logged out.

    Go on to Account Settings > Security > Active Sessions and end all activities. She probably isnt using firesheep.
     
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  12. HelloInsomnia

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    That wont work since Twitter and Facebook now use HTTPS.

    And @OP if you are really concerned then do this:

    1. Dump your gf, you have to have trust in a relationship or it will never work out anyways..

    2. Reformat your computer. Do you really know that you are not keylogged? Are you a security expert? Who knows if your computer has herpes or not, better safe than sorry.

    3. Install something like Keepass, change all of your passwords and then don't save pw information in your browser. We wouldn't want her changing your Facebook password because she also has your email password.

    4. Use 2 step authentication to log into Facebook, make them send you a text or something with a code (pretty sure they have this). Also get emails when logged in from unrecognized devices.

    It wouldn't hurt to protect your wifi as best as you can as well.
     
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  13. chrisis4ever

    chrisis4ever Regular Member

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    could be your cloud on your iphone. IPHONE is the most hackable phone !!!
     
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  14. James2

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    Cheers for the tips guys :) Appreciated.

    Logged out of active sessions, but there is a session in a location 50 miles away that wont be logged out of.
     
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    Like others have said, DTB.
     
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    daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn
    Overly attached gf hahaha

    I think all girls will eventually check your fb convs, however, using tools to "hack" into your account is a bit beyond the reasonable everyday nice girl.
     
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    Never you mind.
    Can I just ask: How does it go down when she brings up what she's read? I assume she brings conversations up regularly, which is how you know she keeps looking.

    Please tell me you go apeshit. Because I wouldn't expect my partner to put up with that...
     
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  18. Duffers5000

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    What are you doing back here ? I thought we killed you off for good :cool:

    If I thought my missus was stalking me on facebook I would have a shit haemmorage.......Unfortunately Facebook is a pernicious decease that infects itself into your life, into the lives of your friends, their friends and people you havent thought about in over ten years...Basically no matter what way I fix settings I expect anything thats shared on facebook to be public knowledge.

    Welcome back anyway.
     
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    Check for the Facebook Apps that you may have accidentally approved. :) So, even if you change password, your Apps don't need for authorization.
     
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    Just tell her to sort her act out... or you're off.

    She's obviously desperate for you- hence her obsessive nature- so just tell you will walk if she doesn't change. Finding the literal way to prevent her gaining access isn't the real solution, the problem runs deeper than that fella.

    If that doesn't work, follow Rotem's advice. Kill her.
     
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