How do you deal with rejection?

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Rejection in general. Lets say in love, work or other situations.

For example I try not to take anything as a "personal attack". I think it makes life so much easier. Otherwise I would keep thinking "I didn't do anything to this guy" or "what did I do wrong?" etc. Sometimes its just not worth it.
 
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If u get rejected move to the next thing. This applies to business, relationships and all
 
Don't care.
For real, have been through so many thing IRL that nothing hurt me anymore.
Life is like a river, on your way to the ocean you will encounter rocks, obstacles, like the water you have to slide and continue your journey.
 
I got rejected by Adsense,maxbounty,merch by Amazon,FB ads... and now they beg me to work with them.
 
1. Take some time to process it instead of forcing a smile on your face.
2. Focus on what you still have in your life.
3. Say no to your inner critic.
4. Let it out to a friend or loved one.
5. Don't think it's all about you.
6. Be constructive and focus on what you can learn.
7. Remember: this is temporary, not permanent (if you keep going).
8. Strengthen your self-esteem.
9. Keep going.
 

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Watch these, have fun exploring the world.
 
It's a game of numbers.

1 Guy go to a club and trying to make a move with a girl. He try with 1,2,3,5 girls got rejected
1 Guy do the same but trying it 100 girls, who will bank?

you need just 1% to say yes

1 Guy send 1 Million of emails with a CPA offer
1 Guy send 50k of emails, who will bank?
 
this can hurt you very bad.
I think job rejection is not utmost important but getting the love of your life and get rejected could deeply hurt you. You can go into depression but If you are true from your side, then god is with you. Stay blessed
 
IG Professor said:
It's a game of numbers.

1 Guy go to a club and trying to make a move with a girl. He try with 1,2,3,5 girls got rejected
1 Guy do the same but trying it 100 girls, who will bank?

you need just 1% to say yes

1 Guy send 1 Million of emails with a CPA offer
1 Guy send 50k of emails, who will bank?
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Name that club, I wanna night out in there
 
I try to be a pessimistic person when it comes to results. So, I don't get hurt upon rejection. I try doing it better next time, and give my 100% again. This strategy has worked awesome for me. The only problem is that when you actually get success, you wouldn't enjoy it too much. You would start doing even more, to get something better. This situation may or may not be good for you though.

As for girls, I don't look good atall, plus I am an introvert. So, don't take advice from me on that haha.
 
Gogol said:
I try to be a pessimistic person when it comes to results. So, I don't get hurt upon rejection. I try doing it better next time, and give my 100% again. This strategy has worked awesome for me. The only problem is that when you actually get success, you wouldn't enjoy it too much. You would start doing even more, to get something better. It may or may not be good for others though.

As for girls, I don't look good atall, plus I am an introvert. So, don't take advice from me on that haha.
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Bro, rich people dont need looks to get the girls.
 
Nut-Nights said:
Bro, rich people dont need looks to get the girls.
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Haha true. I am married now and have a kid. I don't need another girl. So, that's no more my focus. :p :p
 
IG Professor said:
It's a game of numbers.

1 Guy go to a club and trying to make a move with a girl. He try with 1,2,3,5 girls got rejected
1 Guy do the same but trying it 100 girls, who will bank?
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probably the one who instead of talking with 100 girls will spend that time acquiring money
 
If you are scared of rejection, I advise that you face it head on. Put yourself in a position where you will definitely get rejected. Back in the days I would go to the club and play a game where I intend to get 10 rejections in a row. I remember I met my first girlfriend that way. She was #4 and she didn’t reject me.

I also played this game on the streets of NY. I got rejected for 100 times and experience made me immune.
 
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