How could this happen? I cannot believe man...

What should I do about a child I don't think is mine?

  • Get a DNA test behind everyones back

    Votes: 107 81.7%

  • Confront my wife

    Votes: 15 11.5%

  • Spy on my wife to find proof of cheating, then confront

    Votes: 9 6.9%
  • Total voters
    131
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ExperimentalSEO said:
And the very end of the clip she's crying that there's no way that he can't be the father even though the DNA proves he is not.
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dunno why she is crying, i excepted after the DNA test that woman will say sorry and tell the truth like ...dorryi cheated on you not only one day but many...
 
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WEBKNOTECH said:
Hey Mate,

Are you serious in getting a reply, so be it. Being a father is a Special thing, and firstly i congratulate you. The next thing is...

Its a family issue : You are the best person to judge on what to do, mine or anyone's advice shouldn't even bother you. I may get your point but do you really want a DNA test done with a 5 days old kid. I hope not, so let the time take its own course, She is still a 5 days old beautiful little princess. Let her be a healthy child in next two months. Until then, i guess your wife will talk to you or may be the child got exchanged at the hospital, so you can try talking to her and solve the problem

Man to Man : I know the thought of being cheated, poisons your mind minute by minute. You really wanna straight things up as early as possible. It will be hard keeping quiet on something that you firmly believe to share with us but its important for you to give proper attention to a child even if its not yours. We are humans, we even get attached to babies of animals, and she is a Human after all. Whatever happens " IT'S NOT THE BABY'S FAULT "

Watching you so loving and caring towards the daughter, i think she will realize her mistake and confess or may be this is your baby. Or else get yourself a DNA tested after 3 to 8 months when you are sure of her being a healthy kid.

A thing that you can do now is to ask the Doctor about the kid, why is she different than you and your wife. May there is a more simpler reason to all your queries, may be there are some medical condition or medications that effected her appearance.

Now, From a FORUM MATE TO A FORUM MATE : Buddy, it's a family turmoil, the best you could have done is talk to your parents or friends. Someone elses family turmoil is someones entertainment, get practical mate.You should not have posted this thread here, what if all your doubts are wrong, she can sue you on Publicly Defaming her. Above all, this is place to find answers to New Business or marketing theory, in such cases talking to offline real Family or Offline Real Friend is helpful.

Live life with a Big Heart
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I think he's not a father...
 
Definitely go for a DNA test and don't tell your wife about it. If all's well, stay quit and if it turns to be someone else baby, well then you do what you gotta do.

ExperimentalSEO said:
And the very end of the clip she's crying that there's no way that he can't be the father even though the DNA proves he is not.
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lol what's the name of this show?
 
umerjutt00 said:
Definitely go for a DNA test and don't tell your wife about it. If all's well, stay quit and if it turns to be someone else baby, well then you do what you gotta do.



lol what's the name of this show?
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Its the Maury Show, they do a lot of "Are you the Father" episodes.
 
Checking in here to be part of history.

Definitely recommends going for DNA test. Get it done and over with!
 
Frankly, even if the kid came out with the same ugly mole in the middle of his nose just like you have, I'd still do a dna test, because I need to fucking BE SURE!

Wife doesn't need to know.... unless the test comes back negative...

Aaaand... as far as I know the DNA tests aren't always accurate, so maybe do a few. I don't know, maybe nowadays they're 100%, but you gotta be sure man! Don't be a cuck.

That's not to say that if you find out it ain't yours you may or may not want to raise it. That's anyone's business. But personally, I have to know beyond a shadow of a doubt.
 
Go to your local drug store and purchase a mouth swab DNA test x2 (one for you, one for the baby). Then locate a local DNA testing agency. Its not a court ordered test, so they'll test whatever you want (for a fee of $150 - $500). If you're a match, no worries. If you're not a match, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT and don't let her know that you know.

Then plan to and follow through with a move to Georgia. Georgia bars a party from seeking alimony or spousal support if they committed adultery.**
 
I have a comprehensive plan that should be bulletproof for you if it comes to divorce, but I can't type it in a post, it will be too long.

If you love her, as I suspect you do, the hardest part won't be escaping with your money, assets, and no alimony/spousal support. But, rather letting go. If the baby isn't yours though, you have no choice.

I wish you the best with all of this.
 
you should DNA check... dang.. marriage seems a lot harder than coding in notepad :(
 
I am very sorry for you. This is a very unpleasant situation... Do the DNA. The funny thing would be that the kid to be yours and maybe an DNA gene from an old ancestor is playing with your nerves... Anyway, keep calm and no matter what the result will be, keep down the nerves. A broken soul don't need any other legal problems..
 
WEBKNOTECH said:
Hey Mate,

Are you serious in getting a reply, so be it. Being a father is a Special thing, and firstly i congratulate you. The next thing is...

Its a family issue : You are the best person to judge on what to do, mine or anyone's advice shouldn't even bother you. I may get your point but do you really want a DNA test done with a 5 days old kid. I hope not, so let the time take its own course, She is still a 5 days old beautiful little princess. Let her be a healthy child in next two months. Until then, i guess your wife will talk to you or may be the child got exchanged at the hospital, so you can try talking to her and solve the problem

Man to Man : I know the thought of being cheated, poisons your mind minute by minute. You really wanna straight things up as early as possible. It will be hard keeping quiet on something that you firmly believe to share with us but its important for you to give proper attention to a child even if its not yours. We are humans, we even get attached to babies of animals, and she is a Human after all. Whatever happens " IT'S NOT THE BABY'S FAULT "

Watching you so loving and caring towards the daughter, i think she will realize her mistake and confess or may be this is your baby. Or else get yourself a DNA tested after 3 to 8 months when you are sure of her being a healthy kid.

A thing that you can do now is to ask the Doctor about the kid, why is she different than you and your wife. May there is a more simpler reason to all your queries, may be there are some medical condition or medications that effected her appearance.

Now, From a FORUM MATE TO A FORUM MATE : Buddy, it's a family turmoil, the best you could have done is talk to your parents or friends. Someone elses family turmoil is someones entertainment, get practical mate.You should not have posted this thread here, what if all your doubts are wrong, she can sue you on Publicly Defaming her. Above all, this is place to find answers to New Business or marketing theory, in such cases talking to offline real Family or Offline Real Friend is helpful.

Live life with a Big Heart
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This is actually the most sensible reply in this thread.
 
SpawneR said:
I think he's not a father..
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May be or May not be, its not clear still. Sometime all it requires to destroy a family is a little Doubt. How can you, me or anyone else be the judge ? Like i mentioned, it can be exchange or may be he spotted the wrong child in the nursery. Usually new born are only shown from a distance too. Or how they conceived can also depend on the end result, was it a normal conceiving or they took help from a doctor...Only the husband and wife can decide, on what to do...

All i wanted was to stop him for a few weeks, before confronting his wife
 
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