Yes, 10K unique visitors a day could be handled by a VPS. However, I would recommend considering a Dedi Server, keeping in mind that your site resource consumption may increase during peak hours.
Will they warn me on CPU usage and allow me to upgrade if I say start at the 3, thanks in advance![]()
Hostgator is very transparent with its prices, it says very obviously that it's extra for cPanel, and even mentioned at the top of this thread. Whenever I've had to talk to their support team they've always been cool people, and fixed my problems within minutes (literally).
My guess is you just jumped right in without reading everything.
http://www.who.is/whois/wordpress.org/
According to their vps hosting page it mentions mysql/php etc and also says FULLY managed... but I digress...
The real point I wanted to make is:
A web host that doesnt include mysql/php/ftp as default is a bit strange in this day and age dont you think? Also why do they need to have Cpanel to install mysql/php/ftp?