when I see a hot girl, I tell myself to go talk to her, but then as soon as i get close to the situation, I get too nervous and talk myself out of it. then I start acting kind of creepy because i am just hanging out around her and looking at her for no reason. sometimes in stores i even follow girls around the store because i am telling myself "talk to her dammit. talk to her, now now now." please dont give me the typical bullshit like "just do it" or "you gotta be confident" if anyone knows how i can cure this problem for real, let me know.