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Help me make a decision.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by LaasuunKaanBsharoegh, Oct 28, 2014.

  1. LaasuunKaanBsharoegh

    LaasuunKaanBsharoegh Newbie

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    I've been thinking about what I want to achieve this year. Here are the top four things I want to do but I only can choose one.

    1. Gain perfect health
    2. Attract the perfect partner
    3. Become A Genius
    4. Become a Millionaire
     
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    Honestly mate those are very vague goals. You must be extremely specific about what you want. What is perfect health ? Lose weight, bulk up or eating healthy?.. What is the perfect partner like? What do you mean by "genius"? etc. Writing detailed goals is the first step in this process and i suggest that you do that first.

    Have you ever read 'think and grow rich'. Give it a shot- it's a very easy read and worth it's weight in gold. This blogpost is a great read as well. And always remember, be relentless and take action. Good luck mate !
     
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    They all are major problems in my life, so I need to focus on one to really get somewere when it comes to fixing it.

    Thanks for your kindness but i've already read "Think and grow rich" five times. I already have a nice set of specific goals for each of the 4 vague goals I mentioned. Those goals are all major problem areas in my life, I have to focus on one in order to really get anywhere.
     
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    If you are serious about this, I would say gaining a perfect health should be the foremost. Although your definition of perfect can differ from others, if you do not have a good health, the other things on your list maybe quite difficult to achieve.
     
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    I dont think anyone can be in perfect health, certainly not always, but looking after yourself in a way that can improve your health should be number 1 priority, the rest will kinda come naturally.

    I mean if your in poor health your less likely to find a partner and become rich.
     
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    FOCUS on your health, Leads to a more happier/productive lifestyle ! Money comes and goes.
     
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    In my opinion you don't have to stick to just one. Money and good health/fitness/physique could lead to attracting the perfect partner.
     
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    Depends on your health now, if you consider not having perfect health if you're healthy, but you occasionally have a flu, then I'd go for the perfect partner.

    Money will get you women, but for the wrong reasons and this will be problematic in life if you ever wish to get married. I have a friend who (isn't a multimillionaire, but wealthy enough) and he said the best thing ever for him was that he was already engaged to the woman of his dreams when he made his small fortune. He has some friends who are having trust issues with women/men, because they don't know if they want their money or them.

    Plus, you asking a question like this here points out you're not a genius, so you might not want to become one or you'd realize how stupid you've been in your life.

    My 2 cents.
     
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    Then go with #1, the most important.