hello, can i make some friends here? chat chat is OK

i feel a loser, lonely, depressed
maybe i found the cause but i don't have the cure

maybe you should go outside look look

i'm trapped in the office.
besides, the sun is very strong outside.

just take a break budy, healthy first

hi i´m new here to dm me if you want to chat

@Simon the ass in China welcome on the forum.

Are you just an ass, or a dropshipper as well? Feel free to tell us some more info about you.

Tell us some of your side story, then we start from there

well i´m still trying to figure it out this site and i´m here to find a job i can complete so i can get some money to help my family

Lychnobius said:

@Simon the ass in China welcome on the forum.

Are you just an ass, or a dropshipper as well? Feel free to tell us some more info about you.

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Just an ass, everything in a mess.
I don't do drop shipping. I used to do wholesale,,from China factories to US and European Amazon sellers, saying MOQ as 2000pcs electric pencil sharpeners, 5000pcs knife sharpeners, ..

Take is easy bud. Maybe take some time off from work.

Mental health is serious business

welcome to BHW buddy !!!

Simon the ass in China said:

i feel a loser, lonely, depressed
maybe i found the cause but i don't have the cure

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Why not begin the healing process by changing your username?

Welcome to BHW.
So your business got hit hard, because of the pandemic?

Hey, cheer up!

I understand you very well. I have also no friends I hate this so much to be lonely but idk im to shy to talk with people and make new friends. Your not alone with this <3

Simon the ass in China said:

i feel a loser, lonely, depressed
maybe i found the cause but i don't have the cure

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First your username sounds ....
The ass in China, can you send me the picture of your ass then I can be your friend

umpteen said:

Tell us some of your side story, then we start from there

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side story = sad story indeed, too sad to tell

dude, it's not the way you think
it's like 14 years ago, me and a friend decided to start an office like "your eyes in China", to help customers sourcing in China, do the inspection work, etc
however, due to some reasons, the plan didn't work long.
during that time, one foreign friend joked us to change name to "your ass in China"
yeah, it make sense too. we be the ass in China, he the customer doesn't suffer the pain in his own ass.

Sunmoluvic said:

First your username sounds ....
The ass in China, can you send me the picture of your ass then I can be your friend

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XspekulaX said:

Take is easy bud. Maybe take some time off from work.

Mental health is serious business

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thanks bro
i have serious gamble problems.
it's like a circle, jump out for a short period, no longer than 2 years, most offen for just a few months, then jump into the hole again.
now i understand that partially it's because of lonly, because lost in self-management, thus whenever there's stress or blue days, the deep brain government tells the body to go to gamble. Maybe wishing to gain a little bit control over life by winning. Never ends well. There's hell, there's 18 floors under the hell.
lonely, lost of confidence, stress,.... --> gamble --> lost money, lost connection, lost friends, lost healthy --> more lonly, more self-disgusting --> a deeper fall-->......

KelvyTheBlacky said:

Why not begin the healing process by changing your username?

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thanks
ass means jerk ass, 95% it's what i feel now
5% it's from the old story 14 years ago, office "your eyes in China" joked as "your ass in China", yeah, eyes in China means we just see for you, ass in China can save you from the pain in your own ass. funny but described the concept well.

@Simon the ass in China your english is excellent and that is a huge bonus for dealing with western businesses. So you already have a big advantage.

There are many people here on bhw who do dropshipping and from what i can see you are the only person here that speaks english well, has experience sourcing products in china and shipping them.

Set up a jv when you hit 50 posts, offering to source and ship products, it will cost you nothing, i think you will do well on here with that.

@GringoMonkey makes a valid point. Although most people find some skills that can help them grow through BHW sooner or later, there are few who can ignite from the word GO. You seem to be that person. You wanna gamble, gamble here. With your most precious possession- Time.

As for friends and buddies, you won't even have to try finding some. Trust me, you'll know.

Welcome!

Welcome. Hope you can find something useful in this forum.