Hello BlackHatWorld I'm Grouser!

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Hi All!

I've spent almost the last 26 years building an adult website empire. I started in 1999 with a cobbled together PC and a barely used T1 line in my dorm block.
I "retired" at the end of 2024, selling my empire of over 500 domains to one of the larger tube sites for a life changing amount of money. Don't ask, due to my NDA, I can't say.
Retirement lasted about three months before I got bored and snagged some killer 3 & 4-letter domains that were too good to pass up.

I'm here to connect, trade links and maybe share my experience with folks that I have from 26 years of building sites.
 
That's an incredible journey. Respect for building something that big and still staying in the game. Excited to see what you do next with those new domains.
 
26 years of porn. That sounds like it will change someone. Impressive

What web stack are you using?
 
Welcome aboard!
With 26 years in the adult web space, your experience is pure gold. Many here would benefit from your insights—especially around domain strategy, scaling, and link building. Looking forward to your contributions and hope you find some fresh inspiration in this next chapter!
 
I'm using a LEMP stack along with varnish for caching and REDIS for db caching.
Have you ever tried NGINX fast_cgi cache in place of varnish?

I also use LEMP and I think it’s the best. Redis db caching is a must.
 
Have you ever tried NGINX fast_cgi cache in place of varnish?

I also use LEMP and I think it’s the best. Redis db caching is a must.
Good question, I actually use them both.

Varnish handles caching majority of the content, before hitting NGINX/ fast_cgi, which is great with caching static content and images. Varnish helps also reduces the load on the rest of the server.
Basically what ever Varnish doesn't have in or can't cache, NGINX takes over.

I could simplify this and use Cloudflare and eliminate Varnish by caching my content on CF Edge with two simple rules, which I will probably do once I start pushing more traffic.
 
Woah thats cool. Looks like a lot of people will learn a lot from you. Welcome to the community!
 
Good question, I actually use them both.

Varnish handles caching majority of the content, before hitting NGINX/ fast_cgi, which is great with caching static content and images. Varnish helps also reduces the load on the rest of the server.
Basically what ever Varnish doesn't have in or can't cache, NGINX takes over.

I could simplify this and use Cloudflare and eliminate Varnish by caching my content on CF Edge with two simple rules, which I will probably do once I start pushing more traffic.
Tbh I never could get varnish to work for me. I build dynamic websites. In fact I’m building a little community into a Wordpress website using Jet engine and their other Plugins. Fast cgi cache just works for me.

I did use cf edge for a few months but I really didn’t see any benefit in terms of page load as compared to my current caching solutions. Maybe you will get better results!
 
Hell yeah. Never stop working. What else are we going to do? Welcome. Look forward to following and learning from you.
 
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