hey everyone, its shiningeyes!
I was gonna PM only bz but after talking to OP, i am pretty relieved to see him satisfied.
That day is like a nightmare for me. Stayed pretty upset days after the mishap and still can't digest what just happened. I never tried to scam anyone and never did in my whole career online.
This was a strange incident. I have though long and hard about it and i would call it a serious communication failure* and some anger that couldn't help me, it was that state of mind that just costed me heavily. I have learned a lot from it. I have learned to communicate well and provide what you promise. I will say sorry to all of you for all the trouble i created.
Have already sent refund to OP.
I was trying to contact bz from last week but could not get him on bhw irc chat.
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* If only i had told him that it was an old account there would have been no problem at all and if i could know he would go that far. I was relaxed because i thought he won't go, he asked me "Is the account resealable and transferable?" I said "no"
When i came to know that he asked support then i got a bit angry and may be a bit panicked. Then i heard that the license was suspended!
Now i was in state that i have done everything right(which i did not) which refuelled emotions,
That
MAD state of mind did not allow me understand many things that i realized after everything finished.
Thanks to everyone who tried to solve the problem and tried to help:
Sounds like this was more a matter of poor communication between seller and buyer. Honestly, this is a black hat forum with a lot of people desperate for money, I'm not surprised he tried to pawn off an old license and make 60 bucks. My issue is the way this was handled on both sides. Shiningeyes wasn't outright scamming... but he should have made clear that he was providing a used license, not a new one. When it came to light that the OP wanted a new license, Shiningeyes should have refunded the money and worked to get his own license reactivated. I think with civility from the start the solution might have been immediately at hand.
+4 rep to OP, He deserves it
, Someone had have given him Negative rep.. TO OP, I appreciated your honestly, and Finally You won
. Mother Teresa Quoted. "If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway."
Lesson Learned.
First: "Never cheat Anyone"
Second: "Do what you describes "
Third: "Be honest and Do not show attitude in Business"
Last but not in list:
Don't fucked with BZ
It has nothing to do with fearing a mod's ban hammer. The mod would like nothing better to do than to just sit on a perch and watch things from above. It's when they have to get involved that things get more serious.
This Shiningeyes guy clearly didn't know how to follow instructions, even if in his mind it's the "same thing" to give the buyer a previous license rather than a new one that was asked of him. If someone says to me, very cleary, buy THIS one (whatever it is), yet I have the arrogance to substitute it with something that I think is the same, then I am the one taking on any risk that follows, due to this arrogance.
It's in the goddamn faq! OP Quoted it to open this.
Send my money to OP the same way he sent it to you.
and all other who did participate in the thread positively including Fraz, Good luck bro!
I am really sorry to not handle the matter calmly...
Thanks to all of you, learned a lot from bhw and love it.
I am sorry again, i hope you all understand,
Regards,
Shiningeyes,