First, I'd suggest not paying it, unless you are certain you absolutely have to. Second, I'd suggest starting your own thread, as I suspect helping you is going to take some time & verbage, and this is someone else's thread. Finally, I'd recommend reading questions posted carefully, and answering them as completely as possible, and acknowledging that you have not answered any, and provide some reason as to why not, such as that you didn't understand the question, etc...
People that need help need to first understand that it is
they that need help, and that those that are capable of giving it have certain expectations. Failing to appreciate this fact fully causes qualified people to move on to someone else, leaving only those patient people that are willing to be helpful, but lack the ability. At least 50% of what I know today comes from forums like this one, and it's a competitive environment for knowledge & information. People that have it do not want to waste it. Pearls before swine, etc... Make certain you aren't "swine", lol....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pearls_Before_Swine
Post Script:
Another idea. An e-book titled "How to Ask a Question: A Guide to Acquiring an Online Education", by Jonny Quick