God-dammit, why some people get things so easily?

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Like you worked so hard for something.. but you still fail to achieve, get what you want, .etc.

Whereas some others work so little and so easily, but in the end they get their things so easily?


Not to rant here, but it's really frustrating!

I worked in my school report for months (around 3-4 months) and kept submitting for approval but my teacher kept asking me to amend it. I did thorough research and was concise in my report. But he still kept asking me to amend it.

On the other side of the world, I have a slacker friend who just type rubbish in his report and submit it. He did little to no research at all. The next day it was approved without any amendments needed, and his teacher said he did an excellent job.
 
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Or you can also put it in trying to get a girl. Some are just pure jerks and they get their girl so easily. You're the better guy out there but you still lose out. God-dammit, this sucks.
 
When at Uni I had a housemate that would always go above and beyond what was asked of him, he would regularly get help and advice off other students, lecturers and study a lot. I out pointed him on every coursework that we had (when our courses crossed over) simply because I did exactly what was asked and nothing more.

As others have said look at what you have to do and do THAT.

Also on the girl observation if you are a nice guy you will have amuch better chance of getting a girl that knows you as she knows what you are like etc etc. With the jerks they are normally that way for a reason... confidence. The bitches they love confidence.
 
Hah, thanks guys.

I found this very true article:
hxxp://www.articleclick.com/do-nice-guys-always-finish-last.html

Oh well, I guess that is why there are seduction courses, cheats to get your way up, .etc. Ha! Thanks guys.
 
Oh yeah, and this article:

hxxp://www.angelfire.com/ny4/dcolucci/niceguy.html

This guy is pretty piss off with girls =|
But all the things he said really makes sense. Read it up.
 
I understand you a lot. I always feel the same. I don't understand why some people succeed in business with minimal efforts. I have been trying numerous blackhat and whitehat methods to earn online since spring and I am still not successful. I don't know whether to stop now and stop wasting my time on internet marketing and find a day job offline or "never give up" and be insistent to the end. But in second variant I am risking to loose even more time and end up a total bankrupt. The relaitonships phenomenon really concerns me. Why do girls choose jerks and loosers while good guys doesn't interest them. And when you start to act in a bad guy way they begin to choose very nice guys. They always choose someone but not you )))) It makes me f8ckn anxious!!!
There is a Russian classical quote: "The more you love the girl, the less she likes you" )))


BlackSeng said:
Like you worked so hard for something.. but you still fail to achieve, get what you want, .etc.

Whereas some others work so little and so easily, but in the end they get their things so easily?


Not to rant here, but it's really frustrating!

I worked in my school report for months (around 3-4 months) and kept submitting for approval but my teacher kept asking me to amend it. I did thorough research and was concise in my report. But he still kept asking me to amend it.

On the other side of the world, I have a slacker friend who just type rubbish in his report and submit it. He did little to no research at all. The next day it was approved without any amendments needed, and his teacher said he did an excellent job.
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omg, very-well said MasterHunter!
 
MasterHunter said:
I understand you a lot. I always feel the same. I don't understand why some people succeed in business with minimal efforts. I have been trying numerous blackhat and whitehat methods to earn online since spring and I am still not successful. I don't know whether to stop now and stop wasting my time on internet marketing and find a day job offline or "never give up" and be insistent to the end. )))
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Because I believe we have a LIFE BLUEPRINT and if we meant to be rich we do it easily

If we are not Pah
YOu can try all you like and see nothing.
ONLY way to counteract this is to find rich woman/man etc or rob banks or be a :icon16: internet crook
 
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Think about those who failed miserably but ended up with corporate success(how do you explain that) Think about those who had great success in the beginning but ended up with nothing.

Well,I believed in this "the harder you work the lucky you get" - Just learn why you failed and find that opening and run with it.

Remember: No one is born to fail unless they choose to give up. Those who persisted will reap what they sow(YES).
 
I'm not writing copy here so you're probably not going to like anything I have to say so there for I'll just say it. :D

The problem is your attitude stinks.

"The world is a mirror. It's reflecting your inner most thoughts and beliefs."-Debbie Ford

Your life style is in direct proportion to your life philosophy.

Your philosophy leads to your attitude.
Your attitude leads to your efforts
Your efforts lead to your results
Your results lead to your lifestyle.

If you're lifestyle sucks it's probably because your life philosophy sucks. This is as well applicable to your current "rant." Until you change your attitude you will continue to be a "victim" of circumstance.

The current attitude you're displaying is flawed for you to have any long term sustainable success in business, school, relationships or wealth. Not to mention you'll be freak'n miserable. You may think I'm a dick for saying any of this however I say it because I care and because not many years ago I sounded just like you.

Life will be a lot more enjoyable if you open your mind to the philosophy theory.

If success was easy everyone would do it. Don't do what everyone else is doing besides the successful. Which is whine about how unfair life is.
 
"Things don't happen, you make them happen" - ME

Yeah, I better stop ranting. I guess I need to do some reflection and stop complaining.
 
learn to outsource.

you could have found a nice girl to re-do your report if you tried.

accept the fact that there are things you aren't good at & learn to outsource!
 
Dude, what Mudvaine posted is true for the most part. Bottom line. Women like excitement. They like swashbucklers. They like to be kept occupied. In other words, they like jerks. Jerks provide all of the above, especially drama.

As for the rest. Some people have a knack for sucking up and kissing ass. DO NOT GIVE UP! Remember. The object of the game is to perservere. Flail that Internet bitch for all it's worth. And when you think you have nothing left, then flail it some more! In the end, you have to live with you. Good or bad, you are all that you have. Fuck'em, get the job done.

And this is my first post on BHW.
 
There is only action. Do not concentrate on your or others tendencies or what you might be like, what others are like or how you feel. You are a machine. Success is a code, change your actions to fit the code. It's true though that some luck, factors outside your control, are always required to make the code complete.

If you are not prepared to change your actions like a machine, forget about trying to be successful.
 
BlackSeng said:
Or you can also put it in trying to get a girl. Some are just pure jerks and they get their girl so easily. You're the better guy out there but you still lose out. God-dammit, this sucks.
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Ummm I think the girls like the Jerks better? Correct me if I'm wrong.
 
Oh mate, I could write you about this for a month :)
This is just story of my life... Well, in some areas of your life you will have more luck than in others. In my case, I have no problem with girls. When I meet some girls, I can get one that I want with no problem, I just know how to do with them ;)

But, when we talk about business I have BIG problem...
For example, me and my friend started domestic sites selling p0rn :D His site is not better than mine, we have similar amount of traffic, but he is earning 2-3 times more than me...
I`m doing my best, working for 8-14h a day, no weekends... and not earning much. Now, I`ll stick to one thing and work as hard as I can to make it happen!
One man said to me, try 100 things, try 1000 times, once you will succeed :)

When we talk about school...Similar thing is reason because of which I have quit my faculty :( I had to finish 4 static calculations to get to exam. I have doing this calculations for 2 years for that asshole! I have done it like 10-15 times before taking my friends calculations. More than 30 times he told me to do it again because "something" is not fine... So finally I have quit my school.... :(

Fuck the girls (you need to make them happy), fuck the school - It is time to become a millionaire :D
 
Micallef said:
There is only action. Do not concentrate on your or others tendencies or what you might be like, what others are like or how you feel. You are a machine. Success is a code, change your actions to fit the code. It's true though that some luck, factors outside your control, are always required to make the code complete.

If you are not prepared to change your actions like a machine, forget about trying to be successful.
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So I shouldn't worry about who I am, how do I look and how much wealth do I have, how do others feel about me, our appearance and character are nothing, we don't have to think a lot, it's even harmful to think about ourselves. Don't think, just act people succeed because they implement right actions and that's all. Even if it seems that one is doing nothing and gets everything it just means he acts right and you don't notice his actions. The same applies to girls department if you don't act you won't attract any girls even if you're the most handsome man. Nice guys are usually less active than jerks that leads them to failure. Am I right, Micallef?

If so, than you inspired me a lot. We just have to stop mumbling and realize that we fail not because we are loosers by default but because we fear to act. Am I right?
 
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