Going through a dilemma in life, curious to see what some ppl here have to say. I am 25 years old, have a stable engineering job (not some super lazy pothead, just a normally lazy employee ) and I enjoy smoking. My girlfriend cannot stand to be around pot, and hates being around me when I get high. She says that I am less talkative and just boring. Though I think we have plenty of 'dull' times from time to time when I'm not high, inevitable because we have been practically living together. Sometimes I might wanna smoke when we are having downtime but I can't around her. In the long run it seems that it might end up being either pot, or her. There are no ultimatums yet, we have settled for a compromise of me just not being allowed to be high around her. Since I do think that it is often the case that I do in fact smoke too much sometimes and have a habit of not following proper dietary choices usually when doing so, I was willing to try quitting. Though at some point I just couldn't keep saying no to myself. I've been smoking for about 5 years and do not see myself wanting to truly quit, it has become a part of my life. I do believe that there are cases where I should be more healthy about dietary choices when I do it, which I have gotten better at. Though for smoking itself I do not want to quit, though at the same time I do not want to strain my relationship with her. I wonder if in the long run, it will get to the point where I have to choose or if maybe I might find some middle ground with this. After all, I know we would never move in together and really be in it for the long haul with each other if I choose not to quit, or if she chooses not to compromise. I've tried compromising with only doing edibles last night, but then she got really frustrated at that. Was thinking of seeing if vaping would be better, though I am pretty sure it won't. It's just the fact that I do weed for her.