Getting started with Ads?

Hi

I am just getting into all of this so its learn as I go, which for me has meant making lots of mistakes so far

My project is a dating site with tips, reviews etc.

But the traffic isnt dating, only small part. Mostly its people looking for pictures of girls, not porn.

So, how can I convert this? I tried Dating Gold and AFF some conversion but not much, I am running a Sedeuction Affiliate, which gets good clicks but so far no conversion (could convert later as aff sends newsletters).

I am just playing around learning, but what would you recommend to monetize, and learn?

I am giving my blog a major SEO overhaul now.
Thanks!

Mostly its people looking for pictures of girls, not porn.

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So the main content is porn, dating or erotica pictures?

Its a mix of erotica and dating content, got rejected by google adsense.