RE: The Cops
Hey, look at how you people are treating him. Anything that doesn't deal with making $, say when someone comes in here to vent about this type of abuse or that their wife has cancer would draw a "fuck you pussy" from the majority of the community that trolls here.
It's really fucking sad when verbal and mental abuse are done to guys like this one and then when his father obviously tries to provoke him (which none of you retards lacking empathy noticed) so he can get rid of him easily by calling the police.
This is a severe case of his father trying to establish dominance when he knows he's not the alpha male there.
The only words of advice that are good in this post are "the cops aren't going to help you". Make your parents pay your way through college somehow, pay for your dorm or an apartment while you go to school. Tell them you think it would be best if I wasn't stressing about my life and you being anxious about me being here not getting anything productive accomplished.
My family did this too, yes they care but at the same time the people who get away with the most abuse in your life will be either your family or someone in a higher position than you at work.
This is bullshit drama that your father's causing. Check into whether he's sick (chronic pain, ailments) and that's a large amount of the reason that my father lashed out like this --besides being poor and not wanting to work in his mid 40s until now, wanting a free ride having others pay his bills and rent and being a compulsive gambler and living with a sedentary fat piece of shit for a wife.
Look, if you really, really want to move out, meet women. Not girls, not "that one hottie" you drool after, but women. Get some class and behave a bit more cultured and get a job to boot. Get a car if you can. Then work with someone in a relationship to move into a new place with them.
I did it. I'm married and have everything stable now, _but_ I couldn't do it alone. Your best buds from school and new friends you meet (especially males) aren't going to have compassion for you and if you fail to meet their expectations they're gone and vice versa. There's a lot of walking shit that seems to get through life easily.
Seriously, find a woman (maybe your age or perhaps older than you) that is employed and settle down. Maybe not married but find someone you like who can keep you in a good place and give you the motivation you need to work and be your own person.
But yea... if you're like 17 you really shouldn't be on this forum and neither should 1/3 of the vultures who flamed you.
It's going to work like this, and it _will_ be rough with patches of light coming through. Work at McDonalds, take the bus/ride your bike/walk. Bust your ass, save up 3k and establish your credit with credit cards. Student cards if you can take just 1 class at college you can get those. Beg your parents to pay for a little school, if only for that. Work for 4 months, apply for credit cards, get credit there and at a jewelery store (easiest credit that's reported). Next step - secured credit cards and check FICO score. Use them for everything and pay them off bi-weekly or monthly - check FICO score again when you think that you're doing well. Get a 650+ credit score, keep working, apply for a car. Don't do in-house financing, do a straight up bank loan.
Get the car, keep the job, save more money. Save roughly your whole years rent at a place that's better than ghetto... 700 for a one bedroom x 12 months would do it. Take A+ certification boot camp. That's $3,000. Take the cert, get an entry level job. You like computers, right?
Next step - getting paid $9-$12 an hour now and working full time, Get in a Relationship. You won't be able to trust anyone but your significant other to be responsible and not stab you in the back (probably, at least not in the first year).
Got car? Check! Got Money? Check! Got Cert? Check! Got Emergency Savings ($4-5,000)? Check! Got Woman? Check! Getting laid daily? Check!
Get Apartment!
Move from there.
Plan will roughly take 1 year to get to the get apartment part, after that you're on your own. (literally and as in I have no more advice for you, I'm there too).
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