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From HOMELESS to BALR

Discussion in 'My Journey Discussions' started by dutchbalr, Jun 16, 2017.

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  1. dutchbalr

    dutchbalr Newbie

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    Hi there people from blackhatworld, thanks for having me!

    I am a 19 year old guy and about 4 months ago I became homeless. I am blessed I am alife in a first world country where there is enough support for homeless people. At first I stayed with family but ofcourse it was not sustainable. I currently stay at a homeless centre and I am happy to be here. In a third world country I would have it a lot harder.

    I have been in worse situations and came out of it. Life has ups and downs ofcourse and I am sure when I get out of it it will make me a lot stronger (I know it sounds cliché but whatever) I hope that others who are in bad situations shall read this aswell. And get a little inspiration out of it.

    I'm not trying to create pitty or anything. But I want to give a little information about how I got in this situation.

    My parents are in a lot of debt already and could not keep up with rent, after 5 months of not being able to pay rent the judge decided we had to be kicked out. All my saved up money I gave to my parents for food the first months. I had a little job where I could work somethimes when We lived at our granddad's but the homeless centre we are at now is at a very different area. So I will try to look for a new job.

    So this won't be a journey where I will start with internet marketing and make a crazy amount of money but please, bare with me.

    I am starting from scratch. I have no own computer (I use one from the homeless centre or friends) but I have been reading on blackhatworld since februari. When I get my own laptop I will start my full internet journey but till then I will update how I try to get my life back on the rails.

    I know it sounds bad. But i'm really detirmed to get myself out of this situation and help my parents as well. I think this was a wake up call if you will. I am now more detirmed as ever to take care of my financial situation. At take care of it so good I will never ever be put in this situation as well.

    With being a balr I don't mean to be rich. But to have a enjoyable lifestyle and can do what I like and can support my family when needed.

    Will give you guys a update as soon as anything changes :)
     
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    Apounéré Regular Member

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    I wanted to give you some advice but I'm not good at it
    So if you're motivated I'm sure you'll be successful
    Will be following you bruh
     
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    Now that takes great determination and mental strength. Many people started from scratch and did what others thought impossible. So hang in there man, keep up the fighting spirit and I am sure you will change your situation and create a new life for yourself
     
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    Hang on there buddy! It's admirable what you did and what you are trying to continue doing for your family!

    Good luck on finding your new job!
     
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    I salute you with both hands. Never ever give up.
     
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    Hope you'll be successful soon. It's a good thing that your family is your inspiration and you are very determined on achieving your goals. Don't give up and Good Luck!
     
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    Give us an update bro , how's your life ? Have you bought a laptop?
     
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    thorrxD44477 BANNED BANNED

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    apply to McDonald's. 20$ per hour was huge. don't think even higher. start with a low to medium to high. don't think crazy amount. just amount that your satisfied.
     
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    Count Dracula BANNED BANNED

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    I think he's from Germany/Holland where McDonald's offers 9€ / hour .
     
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    This is truly aspiring, someone living on the edge of the law and turning his/her life around. I am proud of you son, keep doing you and ignore all of the haters including @gman777 .
     
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    Good luck buddy
     
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    @NeverQuestionMe Why do you reply to your alt account?

    You probably like to talk a lot to the mirror.
     
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    Well am under other preasure then you! strugglin,, but atleast i see the Bright side! Same as you, keep learning keep researching you'll achive your goals in no Time! trust me

    BAD SITUATIONS BUILD OUR PERSONALITIES
    I'll keep my eye on your progress ;) Good luck stay positive!
     
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    The pursuit of happiness, my friend! God be with you.
     
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    9x8= 72€ a day 2,160€ a month thats was a dream in my country Lol! McDonald's offer here in philipines 0.96$ per hour.
     
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    Why do you take mcDonalds as an example nobody really strives to work there, Philipines are awesome! You have alot of Firms that works in these spheres,, am 100% Sure you'll be able to get on a job like that if you have the nessasary skills!

    am working for a minimum wage in my country as forklifter in a facotry i have more thing on my head then my boss,, compounds orders clients etc and am working 12 hours a day,, barley see my wife and kid but still holding a biz thats goes pretty well in the couple of months, i was alchohloic cause my life sucked and i though its the only option.. Trust me there are good plaaces and people around you,, ;) hope you luck in finding something besides mcdonalds mate
     
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    Good Luck man!! Believe in yourself and never lose hope. Cheers!
     
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    thorrxD44477 BANNED BANNED

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    yeah . im not.into McDonald's Lol. Im in Internet marketing. which is giving me atleast 20-30$ a day is quite fine for me. i can live like a prince Haha
     
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    McDonalds pay 20$ an hour? where ??

    By the way , living costs in countries where minimum wage is 8$ an hour is a lot more expensive. so ur like homeless with 8 an hour unless you take a second job.
     
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    Ben je Nederlands? Je kan het beste een bijbaantje zoeken ergens in een supermarkt en je resterende tijd steken in je IM projecten. Veel succes.

    Good luck on your journey!
     
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