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And one more important thing that you should remember !!
Fear of getting married
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And one more important thing that you should remember !!
bornthisway
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Absolute JERK!!
Look mo, you have been happy for 5 years that means you already took RESPONSIBILITY!
Now you are talking about responsibility? WOW! I wish I knew the girl, I would have showed her this.
And for the rest of life ,either of you would remember that you had that "Doubt" just 2 days before getting married.... This regret of your's! You are no man.
Look mo, you have been happy for 5 years that means you already took RESPONSIBILITY!
Now you are talking about responsibility? WOW! I wish I knew the girl, I would have showed her this.
And for the rest of life ,either of you would remember that you had that "Doubt" just 2 days before getting married.... This regret of your's! You are no man.
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The Curator
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Just remember,
"Women marry men hoping they will change, and men marry women hoping they won't..."
"Women marry men hoping they will change, and men marry women hoping they won't..."
Tamerlane
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If you "broke up" with her last year, but got back together because she was crying, and you made a plan with a "girl friend" to stop the marriage, then...
You have to do a lot of inner work with yourself. You're married now, so mazel tov, but you have to decide whether you love her and want to make this work (which means a lot of sacrifice) or whether you are/were too worried about her feelings and what others would think of you and other potential consequences if you called it off.
I really and truly believe two people can grow to love and appreciate each other (many examples of successful arranged marriages testify to that), even if they're not madly smitten and in full infatuation mode. I don't know what your situation is, but good luck. You'll need it - luck and determination.
Now have a good honeymoon.
You have to do a lot of inner work with yourself. You're married now, so mazel tov, but you have to decide whether you love her and want to make this work (which means a lot of sacrifice) or whether you are/were too worried about her feelings and what others would think of you and other potential consequences if you called it off.
I really and truly believe two people can grow to love and appreciate each other (many examples of successful arranged marriages testify to that), even if they're not madly smitten and in full infatuation mode. I don't know what your situation is, but good luck. You'll need it - luck and determination.
Now have a good honeymoon.
Calm down kid, marriage is not for everyone. And I'm sure OP is free to make up his own mind what he does and down not want in life.
Elin Dotsya
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I really should be sleeping, lol.
Red Soviet
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USA member say he worried a bout marriage to woman. It is big change in man life. Natural reaction to situation. Dmitri know from last 3 marriage.
You think woman deserve better? You only want show her this so you play white knight.........
Regret? USA member not mention regret. USA member say FEAR! Difference.
Get out here with strawman fallacy..........
laur.laurix
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Op stopped answering this thread...his will to live, be happy and enjoy life was sucked in by the black hole called marriage. As a married man, I have one advice for u unmarried lucky bastards...DON`T DO IT!!!!
laur.laurix
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if u are a virgin stay a virgin because once u stick ur stick in the devils cave u will do any thing to get some especially when u are drunk at her mothers house and u pucked a little on her mothers favourite carpet...saying I don`t care I just wanna smash won`t help either.
Capo Dei Capi
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Nothing is going to change after the marriage other than legal paperwork that complicates personal financial matters.
truelearner
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truelearner
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