Fear of getting married

Thankyou guys for posting suggestions and opinions, I admit that I don't really want to get married, however it's too late to realize this :( I asked a girl friend to help me out with this situation (i had a plan), but she refused :(. Anyways, Im leaving for the ceremony in 30 mins.
 
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@USA282 Mate this is like a bump(or swelling), who got bigger and bigger over time. Because you didn't wanted to dissapoint anybody, you ignored the future consequinces, hence you're in this situation.

It's your life. Fuck them, again. What are you?A martir? Hero of sacrifice?

Just say NO!, even if you don't feel like you should. You'd probably never see her or her parents ever after this, but do you care anyway?

You may not understand now, because you lack the vision, but you may get it later. Finish the nightmare which enrooted in your body.
 
This sums up married life:

Wife : Do you drink beer?

Husband : Yes

Wife : How many beers a day?

Husband : Usually about three

Wife : How much do you pay per beer?

Husband : $5.00 which includes a tip

Wife : And how long have you been drinking?

Husband : About 20 years, I suppose

Wife : So a beer costs $5 and you have three beers a day which puts your spending each month at $450. In one year, it would be approximately $5400 – correct?

Husband : Correct

Wife : If in 1 year you spend $5400, not accounting for inflation, the past 20 years puts your spending at $108,000 correct?

Husband : Correct

Wife : Do you know that if you didn’t drink so much beer, that money could have been put in a step-up interest savings account and after accounting for compound interest for the past 20 years, you could have now bought an airplane?

Husband: Do you drink beer?

Wife : No.

Husband : Where is your airplane?
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Its all depends on how you play this game :)

Do let her know that you loves your work but spend some quality time with her, appreciate her, buy some gifts, make her comfortable..If you throw away your EGO.then your marriage life is a heaven :D

Best wishes
Happy married life

Pepper
 
U're about to get royally f'd bra - Good luck! - The phrase 'If you fear something, do it', totally doesn't apply here. U're about to ruin two people's lives. Put that on your conscious and sorry for the truth bomb. I got married cuz I wanted to. Don't do it if you are not in the same space.
 
If you ure US citizen, you are REALLY FUCKED.

should have read books from:
rollo tomassi
or rooshv
hope you maid a pren'up.

I made one. in .de it#s kind of expensive (like 1k), but that bitch got nothing from me after she was banging a other dude :)

I hate women. yeah. honestly.
 
A wise man once said: "fuck the things that don't make you happy"

Guess that's what he will be doing tonight.
 
ferg2 said:
I am never getting married. The thought of waking up everyday to the same ol' woman terrifies me.

I'm going to be like Leonardo DiCaprio or Derek Jeter.
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Jeter is married with a child on the way.
 
@USA282 The fuck? Why are you on dude?

Did you logged in from your wedding?
 
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USA282 said:
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Hey guys,

So I am getting married in 2 days and the only time I remember being so stressed was my result day in high school. Maybe this time it's even worse. It's not like i don't love this girl. We've been together for more than 5 years and everything has been great so far.
It's just that I don't feel prepared for such a big responsibility. As if marriage isn't my thing. I love my privacy, my decisions, my work, my time, myself etc. I discussed this with a friend who thought I am being too selfish. But I guess selfishness is something when you are demanding for love, care, help, support but aren't willing to offer the same. My life has always been perfect. My work has always been my real love. Never felt the need of a partner to fill in the emptiness because there is no emptiness. Well, I guess it's too late to realize this. :( I should have thought of this back in Oct 2016 or 5 years ago when we first started dating.
I don't really understand why am I sharing this here, actually its kind of releasing off some burden in my heart. Hope everything goes well.

Would love to hear your opinions, experiences and suggestions.
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I am really wondering whether this guy is trolling us the entire time or he is actually getting married and on the same time spending time here on BHW.

You definitely should not get married if you are spending time here on the wedding day.
 
USA282 said:
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Hey guys,

So I am getting married in 2 days and the only time I remember being so stressed was my result day in high school. Maybe this time it's even worse. It's not like i don't love this girl. We've been together for more than 5 years and everything has been great so far.
It's just that I don't feel prepared for such a big responsibility. As if marriage isn't my thing. I love my privacy, my decisions, my work, my time, myself etc. I discussed this with a friend who thought I am being too selfish. But I guess selfishness is something when you are demanding for love, care, help, support but aren't willing to offer the same. My life has always been perfect. My work has always been my real love. Never felt the need of a partner to fill in the emptiness because there is no emptiness. Well, I guess it's too late to realize this. :( I should have thought of this back in Oct 2016 or 5 years ago when we first started dating.
I don't really understand why am I sharing this here, actually its kind of releasing off some burden in my heart. Hope everything goes well.

Would love to hear your opinions, experiences and suggestions.
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So who popped the question?
 
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