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Father Passed Away

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by etmcl, Jun 11, 2016.

  1. etmcl

    etmcl Regular Member

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    Hey guys I am so stressed cuz my father has passed away I lost my motivation to work first i lost my nephew and now my father two deaths in two months is such a shock I dont know what to do anymore
     
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    You're father will be proud of you if you continue your work! Make him a motivation. Don't stop!
     
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    I'm so sorry about your loss OP.

    I want it to motivate you to do better, make them proud. WHat would they have wanted for you?
     
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    Sorry for your loss, I know how it feels as I too my father this year alone.
     
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    When life hits you.
    I need you to do me a big favor..

    Get back up, and don't ever give up.

    Some of you in your life things are going to happen to you..
    The doors are going to close on you, opportunities closing.

    But I need each and everyone that's reading this.
    To answer your call, the universe is waiting for you.

    They won't give you your dream, they wont give you your results.
    but you can go out there and earn them, and work for them.
    Some of you hear it every single day "don't give up, don't quit"

    This is a 1 time opportunity at life, we all have blood going through our body.
    We all have a heart, and a brain that keeps us busy.

    This may be your last shot at life, this may be your last chance to reach what you always wanted to reach.

    Never give up.
     
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    I feel bad for your loss , the only thing we don't have control over it's death . Life goes on no matter of what happens !

    Spend some time with your family and loved ones and remember that memories will never die no matter if we are alive or not in this world :)
     
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    Sorry for your loss. All I can say is stay strong and you'll be fine sooner or later.
     
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    Take care. You need to overcome your loss. This is part and parcel of life.
     
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    Oh, Really sad to hear about it! May his soul rest in peace!
     
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    Sorry for your loss OP, it is a tough time but you need to carry on.
    It does get easier.
     
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    Sorry for your loss. You need to remember the good times and all the teachings he might have given you, and try to be a better version of yourself everyday.

    If both your father and your nephew passed away from cancer, I suggest you do a general check-up to see if you could be affected to, cos it might be affecting your family's genes.

    All the best buddy, don't lose motivation. The sadness won't go away soon cos you will always love him apparently, but your motivation shouldn't get lost in the way.
     
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    So sorry to hear such terrible news. Your father wouln't want you to give up, so try to be strong and continue with the work.

    All the best,

    James.
     
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    feel for u bro , lost my mom/dad/step mon/aunty/ all in space last 2 years
    blew wind outa my sails , i just buried my head in work.
     
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    Sorry for your loss OP. Be with your family - it is times like this that they will need you the most. It's ok to take a break from the world/work for a bit, you do need to mourn and just be with your loved ones. Then you'll have to get back up and make your father proud.
     
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    Only the time will heal your wounds. Stay strong OP.
     
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    I had a lot of people die in a relatively short period of time, people that were very close to me, my father included. Mourning is part of the process. Grieving is a natural reaction. We can not let it take away our life though. These people would have wanted me to continue building, continue working, continue achieving and I am sure your people would want the same thing. The motivation you need is right there. If cancer has taken away something from you, take something from it. Set a goal to donate to research for cures, or help another person in need. Continue your work to honor your loved ones and to help those who might be going through the same thing.
     
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    So sorry for your loss, may lord give you strength. Amen !
     
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  18. etmcl

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    Thanks everyone :) Whenever I think about him it makes me sad :/
     
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    Sorry for your loss bro. Don't worry time will settle everything. Stay positive.
     
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  20. etmcl

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    Thanks mate I'm trying to stay positive but its hard