Everything has it's time, everything happens for a reason.

In life, I learned these 2 valuable things.....

When I was young, I was upset when things didn't go my way, so I used my horns to hit it with all I had, sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't.

Then, I relaxed a bit, as time passed and I started to look at things, with different angles.

And when I started to look for bigger picture, I came to conclusion, that everything happens for a reason weather its good or bad. And maybe, there are something that it's not foreseeable at first glance.

The truth is, a lot of times, when some really bad things happened, I was not there, I could not pull it off and etc....looking back, lot of times that "bigger reason" or "purpose" saved my life...many, many times.

So, now if something bad happens, I simply accept it as a fact and say it must have happened for a reason and I continue striving/working and etc. No, I still got no breaks time to time, but I learned where to direct it and when....

But overall, this approach and understanding made my life easier......

For example: I am late? I guess it must have been like this, maybe should not have been on time in a first place ( I am never late )
Broke? - maybe not best time to be rich.

Burnt toast theory keeps me going. Everything happens for a reason

Opulentos said:

Burnt toast theory keeps me going. Everything happens for a reason

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hmm. didn't new that name before

Bottomline no need to overthink and that one needs to learn to let go and not try to worry or control things too much.

Nice post OP. Appreciate it and I think such positive and thoughtful posts make far more sense than say some things that get posted in the lounge section.

Helpful for a nice boost