Don't Listen to Negative People...

tompots said:

I have the same thing happen to me all the time, I think that some people just don't under stand, and some people are jealous. Either one, I try not to pay attention to the negative people that are just looking to bring me down. We know what the internet is capable of doing for our lives.

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lakim0 said:

I would give you some rep if I had not given too much for the past 24 hrs.

Dude, don't make me laugh, why do you even think about giving a shit about them?

Only successful people are being hated, show me a loser that has bitter rivals, why would someone compete a person capable of nothing? This is natural, don't even try to take your mind off work because of them.

I had 5 friends I grow up with, I lost all of them, why ?! - Because they are losers, I have nothing against them but when I was hanging out the only thing we did is drink or smoke, yea, they were my friends for more than 19 years but there's a moment when you have to decide - it's you, or them. I chose myself, am I arrogant ? Hell NO!

I live in a country where everyone forces their children to study 6+ years to get a 9-5 job with shitty salary. I had nobody around I could look up to, I did it myself, but I'm really amazed how people reach their goals at the early age. From 100, max 5 become successful, I guess all five are here, BHW is a great community indeed.

Take ferma321, I don't know him in person, neither I'm informed about his projects, but from his posts I can see he's done much more than people of his age. There are many others like him.

That's why I prefer skype conversations with BHW members than hanging out with my loser friends.

Regards, lakim0.

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I turned 19 1 month ago, and i really wanna be bussiness person, while my other friends at same age partying, drinking, smoking and dont thinking about future waste their valuable time, i invest time to make money and build bussiness.

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Ste Hughes said:

I often think about my days when I was part of the rat race.

I left high school with the 5th best grades out my year. My future was bright and I had many doors open but no idea what I wanted to do.

I went to college (16-18 age learning) and lasted 1 year. I fucking hated it, it was the aspect of high school I hated but it was magnified (no actual learning, just learn to pass tests)... but I did do Philosophy and that changed my life. It really teaches you to think about shit while taking a step back from it all and I feel I am a lot more creative because of it. I also had an amazing teacher which also helped I feel...

but anyway, I see the rat race as bollocks. Many of my friends are accountants or bankers... careers where they have a lot of paths to take to success and for what I know they will probably get there but they are essentially zombies. They hate it.

Why the fuck do people do a job, to carry on living, to carry on doing a job they hate?

They work in a job they hate to pay their bills, they get paid and pay bills so the next month they can carry on working at a job they do not like....

This is fucking madness. Where is the future for them? They want that company BMW and 6 bedroom house and good on them for having the ambition. They can do it and they know that but seriously... you work 40 hours a week for 50 years of your life, why dedicate such a high portion of your life to something you loath.

Do something you want to do, ignore the money.

The money should not be part of it, because if you have an interest in something then chances are so do others. And if you get to the top of your trade, the pinnacle of your area of expertise you will be able to charge a large fee for what you do.

You will not get to the top of your trade without a pure love for what you do and what other way is there of doing what you love?

So in other words fuck others, fuck opinion, fuck hate, fuck negativity.

If you want to spend your life scuba diving, do it. Open a diving school, go find buried treasure... what ever it is, just do it.

because you will be doing something you love and the people around you will be selling shoes in sports stores working so that next month they can afford to work and carry on being miserable and depressed.

Explain this to them and then ask, which one of us is the stupid one?

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MiLiTARYiV said:

People use to tell me all the time when i started out making 5=6k a month few years ago to get a proper job. u need stability. I understood where they were coming from..

Really IM is not a stable income for most and its more of a hustle income but still dont kinock me for trying. I made more then most made in 1 year in 3 months, I just tell them well Im riding out this money train until dies down and will have lots of $$ in bank while you have none

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James2 said:

I agree, some people will say that ref stability and I understand that, but I think this can be stable as long as you keep up to date on things and are willing to evolve.

I think as long as there is the internet and people wanting to buy something, there will always be room in IM for making a living.

Also, as long as your fingers are still working and you have all your marbles intact, you can do this work when you are old.

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Ste Hughes said:

Being a true blackhat is not stable

its in its nature, its like saying drug dealing is stable.

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Ste Hughes said:

Being a true blackhat is not stable

its in its nature, its like saying drug dealing is stable.

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hameem said:

Like all other businesses, IM has both stable and unstable forms. For the most part though, the stabality comes from mastering a particular skill in IM. It maybe SEO, maybe paid ads or maybe even building a authority website.

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