Done with Myspace, What next?

Ok, Looking for a little advice, I am done with myspace..its been good
but I am just getting tired of it...my CTRs have been dropping for some time
now and want to farm some other pastures....

My question, is where do you think is the next best thing, I need to send
direct messages, preferably with a live link, that wont get banned it 48 hrs.

Facebook is not my thing...

Was thinking along the lines of Tagged or Friendster etc...If anybody has been in my shoes already, and would be willing to point out some thoughts that would be awesome. Or If you are in my situation, and hunting around post some of your thoughts as well.

I think 48 hours is a long time... But that of course depends on how much you spam out messages?

I spammed a local (for my country) community-website through a custom made script, and was banned the same day. Even after implementing a function to automatically spin the message I was still banned in about 24 hours - people WILL report you, unless you manage to create a very good non-spammy message with your link.

With that said, if you used many accounts, spun the content and maybe even sent out a different URL in each message (using one of the well-known URL shorteners) it would be possible for the messages to stick, and you not getting banned.

I don't have any recommendations to social networks though, hopefully someone else can contribute with that