Does a person become more attractive when you fall for them?

l0cke said:

I know that. I am talking about a person who looked ordinary all of sudden looks extraordinary. After developing feelings for them.

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Ah no. I do only hot, young guys eh. To be fair nobody looks their best 24/7, so if you're into someone and they're already good looking but have a worse day you don't notice as much. But not to a point of being attracted to an uglo, no.

Yeah

Depends on whether you are intimate with other people. Oneitis is a thing. A dangerous thing.

That said, a person becomes more attractive to you if you do favors for them.

So, guys, if you want to attract the girl, don't do favors FOR her - ask HER to do favors for you. Start small and slowly escalate. Literally ask her to step aside, hold your jacket or bag for 5 seconds, and so on.

There is some semi-subconscious rationalization going on. "I normally don't do this. I don't do this for guys. Oh, I did this, so he must be special. I keep doing things for him, so he is the one."