RealDaddy
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- Jun 30, 2018
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Hey,
Feelings and emotion is something that can cause a lot of suffering and anxiety, these are the actual cause why everyone is trying to builshit themselves.
Notice this - Whenever you feel great, your productivity just goes through the roof, it feels like you can become the next president of USA.
The thing is, it's fucking idiotic.
The people who make you feel bad about yourself (they not even have to do anything, they just have to somehow appear in front of you),, there mere existence cause misery.
Here is the thing - They only have that. Yeah! they only have good body, amazing beard, or any other thing.
Don't you think they may also feel bad when they saw someone with more wealth than themselves.
The Biggest Irony - The people who are better than you (in your monkey mind) also know people who are even better than them.
So how to break out of this self sabotage cycle -
Example - Every Indian (don't know about others) who was an average student in his school/college (me included) was an average student because of only one subject - Mathematics.
The reason is, every average student was trying to become the next maths topper.
Here is the thing, from class 6 - 12, I always had a home tutor for mathematics, and I always spend (waste) most of my time solving maths question.
And the result - I have never scored 60% in maths ever. On the other hand, I have always scored 80% or more in social science,English and Hindi (studying only 1 time in the whole year, just before the exam day).
And this the actual thing we all are doing.
If you are an internet marketer, here are the amazing perks you have -
The only thing is, stop trying to fix everything thing in your life, because you will just fail at everything miserably.
I hope it will spark something in you!
I may write another post about self esteem and self confidence, let me know if you guys would be interested in that.
Best Regards,
Aman.
Feelings and emotion is something that can cause a lot of suffering and anxiety, these are the actual cause why everyone is trying to builshit themselves.
- You may look at someone and feel, oh man! I can never look that good, or I can't have such an amazing physic.
- Or something like, I have so many pimples on my face or anything...
Notice this - Whenever you feel great, your productivity just goes through the roof, it feels like you can become the next president of USA.
The thing is, it's fucking idiotic.
The people who make you feel bad about yourself (they not even have to do anything, they just have to somehow appear in front of you),, there mere existence cause misery.
Here is the thing - They only have that. Yeah! they only have good body, amazing beard, or any other thing.
Don't you think they may also feel bad when they saw someone with more wealth than themselves.
The Biggest Irony - The people who are better than you (in your monkey mind) also know people who are even better than them.
So how to break out of this self sabotage cycle -
" CHANGE YOUR FOCUS "
The reason is, every average student was trying to become the next maths topper.
Here is the thing, from class 6 - 12, I always had a home tutor for mathematics, and I always spend (waste) most of my time solving maths question.
And the result - I have never scored 60% in maths ever. On the other hand, I have always scored 80% or more in social science,English and Hindi (studying only 1 time in the whole year, just before the exam day).
And this the actual thing we all are doing.
If you are an internet marketer, here are the amazing perks you have -
- You have your own schedule (yeah, it sounds cheesy) --- People would be jealous of you if they know how you do work
- I mean when you have 50 Instagram accounts making you $1 per day/account = $50 X 30 Days = $1, 500
- You may need to spend an hour everyday, just to troubleshoot if something happens!
- I know it's pretty vague, but it's something that do exist!
- Do you know that it's impossible to earn that much ($1,500) when you have no graduation degree in India!
The only thing is, stop trying to fix everything thing in your life, because you will just fail at everything miserably.
I hope it will spark something in you!
I may write another post about self esteem and self confidence, let me know if you guys would be interested in that.
Best Regards,
Aman.
