Depressed...

Mate, I have recently faced depression and anxiety attacks for like 6 months due to family and financial issues. Here is something that worked for me, maybe it will help you. Try to think about life logically rather than emotionally because from my experience depression and sadness effects us the most when our emotions take over our mind. Think only logically and take the best step for making your life better. Live life for you rather than for your mom or your girlfriend because it will just make the situation even more complicated. Try to be understanding towards other people but put yourself first. Read 48 laws of power by Robert green or just watch a short summary on youtube, it really gave me a whole another perspective on life.
 
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You feel depressed because you put high expectations in IM, like getting rich and never got there so you feel down. First do basic things start from principles, find a job, something you have some degree of experience is even better. Than start studying, then do what is giving you little to no return as a hobbie, IM for example. Get things real, don't try to live a dream and abandon real life, because you will never leave depression and sadness this way.
 
Maistroo said:
i am depressed
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Maistroo said:
i am 23 years old
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Already? You have seen nothing yet.

Maistroo said:
and it seems like nobody care...
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You are correct. Why should anyone care?
Maistroo said:
I cant find a job
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That's because you are inexperienced. Companies generally prefer hiring people with experience. They are called "skilled labour" if that makes any sense lol. Try to get into some company who takes freshers, no matter what the salary is. Spend your time learning the job, and gain experience. Only look for a higher salary, once you are pretty good in what you do.
Maistroo said:
i dont know whitch method i should follow (so many out there) and dont know that to do anymore...
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Don't worry about methods right now. Go get a physical job, like I pointed out above. If you do not have money to invest, there is very less chance that you will succeed.
Maistroo said:
this hurt so fucking much...
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Consult a doctor.
Maistroo said:
Someone outthere who can help me stand up again?
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Don't be lazy. Go look for a job right now.
 
Maistroo said:
i am depressed and it seems like nobody care...

I cant find a job, i dont know whitch method i should follow (so many out there) i am 23 years old and dont know that to do anymore... this hurt so fucking much...

Someone outthere who can help me stand up again?
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if you are depressed. the only advice i can give you is
HIT THE FUCKING GYM
Start Jogging/Running/Doing Exercises

Get your body to move, the more your body move, the more your brain will fill better. But don't over exercising
Trust me
 
Maistroo said:
i am depressed and it seems like nobody care...

I cant find a job, i dont know whitch method i should follow (so many out there) i am 23 years old and dont know that to do anymore... this hurt so fucking much...

Someone outthere who can help me stand up again?
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same problem bro & same age....
 
widro said:
You feel depressed because you put high expectations in IM, like getting rich and never got there so you feel down. First do basic things start from principles, find a job, something you have some degree of experience is even better. Than start studying, then do what is giving you little to no return as a hobbie, IM for example. Get things real, don't try to live a dream and abandon real life, because you will never leave depression and sadness this way.
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Totally agreed with living in reality rather than dreams of expectations. I had made the same mistake.
 
I dont get it. Does your hand still working . kfc and store like that always offer quick job.
 
Dont get depressed and lay low brother!...try to get some motivation in u and cultivate a dont give up kinda attitude, u can incorporate fitness , yoga or medidation to combat stress and once this is done half d battle is won. The next step is chart out a blueprint as of what all things u r capable of doing whether its IM, a job or ne other field u r interested in and keep an alternative for each n every plan. As in if u get success nothing like dat but incase u dont then what. Life is like a jigsaw puzzle my friend all d pieces r der in front of u already. U just need to fix d right pieces to the right ones. All d best pal get charged up n go ahead!!!:)
 
1. Your intelligence working against you, another name of this is depression. Thats all it is.
2. Earning a living (food not money for luxury) is not a big deal. If you could use internet and post a post then it must not be a big deal.

Just find food to eat and be fucking grateful you are still alive. Just sit down and give a big fucking smile.

And slowly work towards bigger financial freedom if thats all you want to have in your life. Nothing wrong in it. But human tendency is such that he always wants to be more than what he already he is.
 
Bro, I feel you. Seriously. I'm in this mindset for years, since I finished high school. It's hard, it feels like you will not gonna win -- and let me tell you something, EVERYTHING can be solved/fixed if that is in your reach. What I mean is, you need to take control of your life, wrinting down all things that you are good at, or need improvement etc etc, discover what you like to do, what you doesn't like to do -- is all about self knowledge, man. I'm telling you this because I'm still working on knowing more about myself, and it feels very good and freeing!

So, my advice: try to know more about you, and do things that you believe it's worth it. Please, don't try to live you life for others, live for you. ;)
 
Maistroo said:
i am depressed and it seems like nobody care...

I cant find a job, i dont know whitch method i should follow (so many out there) i am 23 years old and dont know that to do anymore... this hurt so fucking much...

Someone outthere who can help me stand up again?
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Yes bro. I felt depressed too, many times. What are you doing in your life ? How does your typical day look like?
 
I was depressed because I could not find a job @ 23 years old and I thought I don't have wife or son, and money is only paper, is not worth your health. I lost hair because I was depressed and sleeping all day. Now I am in debt but kinda happier.
 
I’m 23 right now too bruh, just started a blog and a nice site. I ain’t depressed just procrastinate/ lose focus sometimes but hey I’m still stay at it.

Bro nobody can really help you but yourself, stay away from social media.

You don’t need a job either, you can start a website with less than $100.

Yo godaddy has this promo, you only pay $12.18 for domain and hosting.

Start a website or blog and write about how you feel your depression and all that.

Stay hungry and jobless so you can work harder and harder. To reach your goal, don’t be tricked into entering the matrix.

Even though I would love to join the army, but for now it’s all online for me bruh.

You can message me anytime if you need somebody to talk to, nothing weird or any of that.
 
meannn said:
Haha yeah I think Nguyen is a rule to be added in a name if you are from Vietnam :D
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Haha since 99% of people outside Vietnam cannot pronounce the word Nguyen correctly, they pronounced it similar to "win". Having "win" in your name make your life too easy, i'd pass that haha
 
I think you already got a whole lot of good advices.
Happiness is dying, when you start to compare. You don’t need to impress anyone. Follow your passion, if you are good in gaining Instagram Followers, why you don’t build a Service around that.
Just as an example.
 
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