Depressed from shiny object syndrom

vario150 said:

get a grip on yourself, man.. it's okay if you feel lost, but not depressed. you're too young to depressed. don't wasted your youth anymore so you don't live in regret

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Dark Sky said:

His problem is he's had an easy life. We evolved millions of years going through struggles, and he now has it all on a plate served to him. It goes against his biological nature.

If OP went homeless for 1 month, he would see life a different way and he would love the life he has. This is often referred to as "1st world problems"

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Dark Sky said:

Looks to me like you've lost yourself, and you don't know who you are anymore. You feel an outcast, whilst everyone else is doing what they love, you are there who can't find anything at all.... doing nothing with your life...

Sound like you? The good news is, that's normal. I went through it a few years ago, eventually I found what I loved.

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test - This is what fixed me. Sounds stupid right? But this personality test has around a 90% hit rate and was created from personality theory.

It will give you 5 long pages about your life, telling you what careers you are built for ect.

It told me the folllowing

Logicians are well represented among mathematicians, analysts, researchers, and scientists, particularly in more abstract fields such as physics. Jobs in engineering and technology can also be a match, especially if they allow room for creativity – Logicians would much rather pioneer new approaches than spend their days implementing someone else’s work.

Guess what? I fricking love mathematics. I fricking love analysing. I fricking love researching. And I fricking love science. It scoped me down to me exactly. I don't know what genius was involved in it's creation, but it's so fricking accurate it's unreal.

All my family follow these exact careers as well, and guess what? Out of all the 16 personality types they could have hit, they all hit the same as me. Logician.

If you feel lost. Take this test. It will show you who you are. And tell you what you are passionate about. Just make sure you answer the questions with complete honesty. Concentrate on honesty.

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originallife said:

You are sorry for your situation, I wish I could do something ...

Maybe if you can understand that there are people who are worse off than you, things can change ...

You know there are people who wouldn't be able to get up from their beds without a miracle, right? ...



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TheVigilante said:

He should probably read this thread:

https://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/a-different-kind-of-success-story-which-hopefully-gives-you-an-extra-push-long-ass-read.1111098/

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skule said:

It's not about doing what brings to you money but what brings happiness to you.

Go back and study something that you like (Med, engineer, etc)

And stop believing every single thing that you read, I've seen a ton of people quitting their life just to pursue business and fail, the my journey section looks more as a 'Only winners section' and doesn't talk about people who have failed.

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