Dating Sadness

jaycewarrior said:

you will have this feeling for a week at the worst scenario a month then you will start forgeting about her. The first time a girl dumped me i was depressed and felling bad about my self for like a 3 weeks then i started to move on and thinking about my future and taking care of myself.

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Jimmy Undertones said:

Hey everyone, hope your well.

I have been dating this girl for about 2 months, previously ive not been dating for a over a year. She was absolutely stunning, not sure how i managed to date something so beautiful. We had a great time together traveling, meals out and i felt happy, she had a good personality, we laughed lots.

Sadly she has had to go back to Canada due to a family member who has an illness, who needs caring for. She did not want to be a burden on me and said it might be better if we go back friends as she could be back home for a few years, not sure if she will return back to the UK. We speak maybe once a week and i am fine with it, things happen that our outside our control and i want her to be with her family.

However lately i have been feeling a bit sick, thinking about the good times together. I also get a bit anxious and sad remembering the great times we had together. I am not sure if i will find love again. I feel a bit weak posting this as i thought i was a strong person, men shouldn't feel this way should they? Does anyone know what i can do to overcome this, i feel a bit embarrassed posting this, any help you can give i would be thankful for. Thanks folks, i know you will probably laugh at me.

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Jimmy Undertones said:

Hey everyone, hope your well.

I have been dating this girl for about 2 months, previously ive not been dating for a over a year. She was absolutely stunning, not sure how i managed to date something so beautiful. We had a great time together travelling, meals out and i felt happy, she had a good personality, we laughed lots.

Sadly she has had to go back to Canada due to a family member who has an illness, who needs caring for. She did not want to be a burden on me and said it might be better if we go back friends as she could be back home for a few years, not sure if she will return back to the UK. We speak maybe once a week and i am fine with it, things happen that our outside our control and i want her to be with her family.

However lately i have been feeling a bit sick, thinking about the good times together. I also get a bit anxious and sad remembering the great times we had together. I am not sure if i will find love again. I feel a bit weak posting this as i thought i was a strong person, men shouldn't feel this way should they? Does anyone know what i can do to overcome this, i feel a bit embarrassed posting this, any help you can give i would be thankful for. Thanks folks, i know you will probably laugh at me.

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Emmanuel A said:

How i wish you were right here with me, i would have get you 2-some, girls that will make you forget your sorrow's over night.
Sorry, just get busy with your work and with time you're outta this shit. or you should just fly to Canada bro, it's also a good idea, even if for a week, Skype here every day, you know go wild with her, get her some sleepless night, and in no time you will be all she's craving for

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