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Dating Advice..

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Spud Jr, Nov 17, 2009.

  1. Spud Jr

    Spud Jr BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    If a girl tells you that she is not sure this is the thing (relationship) right now. Does that mean there is hope in the future?

    Some neutral advice would do me awesome.
     
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    Gofobu Registered Member

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    Are you guys fucking? If yes than there sure is hope.
    If no...rather not.
     
  3. Spud Jr

    Spud Jr BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    We had sex, then she wrote me the email telling me that she didn't think this was the thing to pursue right now.
     
  4. tony-raymondo

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    then it only depends on if the sex was good or bad
     
  5. JohnG

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    Sounds like a brush off to me, just her way of trying to let you down easy.
     
  6. Spud Jr

    Spud Jr BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    She said she had a great time and things were cool. Then 2 days later, I get that email
     
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    Gofobu Registered Member

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    Either you fucked her too fast and now she feels guilty or you suck in bed :p
    No hope in the second case.
    In first case you can try to go the dating route telling her that you think things happened too fast and now you would really like to get to know her as a person, that kinda bla
     
  8. IAMAZEME

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    After the sex you got the note. take it from someone who knows women better than anyone on this board. (ive been a manager of a gentlemens club for 6 yrs)

    move on and cut your loses. cause if you fckd her right you wouldve nvr got the dear john letter. just move on and find a girl who doesnt think sex is important.

    lol
    sry man
     
  9. Spud Jr

    Spud Jr BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    damn, I was hoping this wasn't the case of not screwing her right. I feel like a lame-o. Shit, I better start drinking beer and making money so that the gals won't be looking at how bad I potentially suck in bed.

    FCUK!!! Thanks guys
     
  10. IAMAZEME

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    success is the best revenge. And she may be the dysfunctional one. doesnt mean you have a small penis just may mean she has a huge cunt?

    lol jk man but in reality I say move on. The person who shows the least interest in the relationship always has the most power.

    Point being is if you pursue this and get the girl chances are she will make you miserable.
     
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    Spud Jr BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    Damn, this blows. Oh well
     
  12. muscleteen

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    Bro, seems there is no hope.

    Now what you're going to do, is leave it! I'm not saying ignore her when she's talking to you and all, but just don't show interest. Project the image of being OKAY with it, as if nothing happened.. That might seem weird, but trust me, she'll WONDER... She might just bring this up herself! Just tell her, "Euh, you did say you weren't sure, so.." and change convo :) After that, she's gonna be sure.. Trust me :)
     
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    That is basically saying the sex was good.... but I can get better.
     
  14. Sanitarium

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  15. Spud Jr

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    She hasn't contacted me since she sent the email. My buddies tell me to give her a week. I am at this point, just going to write it off and be minutely upset and then move on. I am one of those sensitive types.
     
  16. The Negotiator

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    just give her some time bro,
     
  17. Sanitarium

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    Awww, did you know that 90% of women don't think men go through this at some point?

    Okay I made up the stats, but still.
     
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    Kudos to you for being able to just put a girl behind you like that. It'd eat away at a lot of people. :]
     
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    I know this is gonna sound fuckin gayer than a uh.. well who knows. When I met her, I was thinking that I wanted to be with her indefinitely. She was so freakin sexy and smart.. ughh what the hell??

    Yes, I think I am smitten but I was trying to be indifferent, fvuch that shit

    She liked beer!! How often you find women who love beer??
     
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