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Confused - what shall I do?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by TrillestMedia, Jan 7, 2014.

  1. TrillestMedia

    TrillestMedia Junior Member

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    Listen up.


    I'm making money , a little , Shall I save it up for the future to live my dream and work hard or shall I give to my parents for there financial help?

    Also my mum is 'pissed' because she thinks what I'm doing is illegal - Graphic Design , what shall I do?

    I'm also studying for my GCSE's , so shall I study hard , or study hard and make money and work on my project?

    Your help is really needed!

    thanks :)


    -Akash
     
  2. bihguy

    bihguy Power Member

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    I know how you feel. Mine are the same. Well, I made a deal with them. They won't bug me if I give them 10%. Which is fair I guess, mostly because I live under their roof.
     
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  3. seocloaker

    seocloaker Newbie

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    Help them financially for sure, if you're doing GCSEs then you'll have plenty of time in a few years to save for yourself.

    As soon as I started making money I gave thousands to my parents (I'm 24 now), and I still give them money regularly as a way of saying thanks for all the financial sacrifices they made for me during the 18 years I was at home.
     
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  4. pulkitseo

    pulkitseo Senior Member

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    come on mate how can you ask such a question which has only one answer..ask your consciousness and you will have all your answer...
    parents without doubt...you have whole life to earn more but to serve parents u don't get much time..you are lucky to have ability to serve your parents...
    "matridevo bhavo"(translation :mother is god)
     
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  5. pulkitseo

    pulkitseo Senior Member

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    come on mate...blessings of parents is worth millions...you should say words like u have to pay coz u live under your roof...i have seen live example of what parents blessings can do to man...
    money finishes in quick time but blessings stays for lifetime...i might sound bit orthodox...but this orthodoxy have brought kids like "shravan kumar " which is dream of every parents...
    Note: My apology if i have said something unwarranted..but i am very immotional when it comes to parents...there saying in hindi"a person who cannot be of his parents he cannot be anyone else's(hindi quote meaning given b4 bracket "jo maa baap ka nae ho sakha woh kisse ka nae ho sakhta")"
     
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  6. Beven

    Beven Elite Member

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    Your education is more important than anything else. GCSE's? You're pretty young then.

    Explain what you are doing to your mum and if she's supportive she'll understand. If not screw em, do what you want.
     
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  7. TrillestMedia

    TrillestMedia Junior Member

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    Guys I didn't mean like Give it to my parents - I meant like to help them now or save and help them and live better in the future
     
  8. redrubies

    redrubies Supreme Member

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    Give them some every week to help them if they are struggling.
    Also, just tell them that you work for google. It's the only thing they understand. I have been making and selling jewelry for years, raised kids on it as a single parent, gave them jewelry for gifts that I have made, and my parents still have no clue what I do. One of these days, I am just going to say that I work for google so they will stop telling me to get a real job.
     
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  9. tixpf

    tixpf Regular Member

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    Enough said.
    Seriously, your education comes first - always! You probably won't believe how giddy I've been the last couple of weeks and probably still will be the next 3-4, because I've got so many ideas, but no time at all, since I have to study hard for my finals.
     
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  10. ok888

    ok888 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Education alway come first


    Give some to your parent and save some


    Most of the time young fellow have issue with parents because lack of communication. Try explaining to your parent one more time clearly with what your doing in the IM world. Im sure they will understand you
     
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  11. trajek

    trajek Newbie

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    Help out your parents. You have to be one really foolish kid if you dont. This reminds me of the saying "You dont bite the hand that feeds you".
     
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